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Weekend with Grandma

2012-01-25T11:39:00.000-05:00

I had to remind Grandma Jean that since she's retired, she should come visit for longer than a weekend. Selfishly, I had a list of items I wanted to accomplish and having her here made it happen. Unselfishly, I knew the kids would enjoy having her here.

So, with no twisting of her arm, she came down Thursday night and stayed until Monday morning. She went with us to Mason's checkup. She picked Miller up from school early on Friday (they made a trip to Home Depot to get the makings for our terrarium). He was pumped to have time with Grandma and no one else along. She brought along "Dolphin Tale" which was a huge hit (I think the popcorn also added to the experience).

Saturday Miller had a birthday party so we took Mason with us shopping. We were on the hunt for curtains and some other household junk. We were successful with the curtains but unsuccessful with the rods until Sunday. Check out the final product:

We went to Brian and Crystal's going away party and had dinner. Then it was back home to finish Dolphin Tale.

Sunday we planted some plants and completed the terrarium (notice Sportsman is hiding in the pot):

We finished some more shopping that day too. Our biggest project was helping Miller with his homework. He had to "dress" a life size drawing of himself. We bought some camo material for pants, he helped cut out the boots, did all the gluing, colored his shirt and face (some bad help from mom), and added stars to his shirt. Not too bad if I do say so myself.

In addition to the little chores, I had a taste of a pseudo maid. Grandma must have done a million dishes throughout the weekend.

She spent time with both kids and was an extra set of hands around the house. It was fun and we even squeezed in a few minutes of adult time. She topped off her stay with a pot of homemade chicken soup for us to eat Monday night. Thanks Mom! Next time it's Grandpa Jeff's turn. (Grandma and Grandpa Froyd are planning a trip in March so Miller and Mason don't go too long without their grandparents around to spoil them).

Here are a couple shots of Mason. Drooling during tummy time and passed out in the swing after a hard day of playing/shopping.

Mason's 18 Week Stats

2012-01-23T10:48:00.000-05:00

Mason had his 4 month check up on Friday. He's an eating machine and his stats prove it.

Height: 27 1/4 inches (97%)
Weight: 20 lbs 4 oz (97%)

He gained a little over 2.5 lbs since his last check up. I checked Miller's stats for the same checkup and Miller was a half inch taller but 3 lbs lighter. It's interesting to see how they both grow and what each was doing at the same time as far as milestones.

With Mason being so "beefy" it's hard to find "age" appropriate clothes. He could easily move into some 12 month clothes but some are made for babies who are more active. I couldn't imagine putting him in more "structured" pants right now. He needs to stick with his easy access, comforable cotton, elastic waistband pants.

I know he will thin out once he starts moving but it's insane to think my little baby was never little. At least it explains why I don't carry my kids like other parents. I am too wimpy to lug around a 20lb blob. It makes Jazzy cat seem like a feather when I pick her up.

Bakers and Artists

2012-01-16T13:30:00.000-05:00

With the recent cold spells, I had a craving for chili. My batch is usually more than we can eat and honestly, I am not one for freezing and eating at a later date. It made perfect sense with Miller's plea to see Rylee and Norah that we have an impromptu dinner with the kids coming over for some playtime.

I was so proud of the kids. They each got to make a batch of corn muffins (well, Norah made some egg, flour, milk mixture and filled her tins with that). They all listened and did a great job cracking eggs, pouring milk, emptying contents of package (hey, you know I consider making a box mix "homemade") and stirring it. They also put all of their own muffin liners in and filled them up.

After dinner when all of the adults sat down in one room (lasted 5 minutes but we all made note of it), the kids needed a quiet activity to wind down. Surprisingly, all wanted to color/draw. Out came the color books, crayons, stickers, colored paper, and funky scissors. They all made their own creations and had fun doing it. I was also pretty proud of the kids for sharing and playing quietly.

They are growing up so fast. I think our next major milestone with the older ones will be when they play without us being with them for longer periods of time. It won't be long (granted, we will still have the little ones to go through all the steps again but maybe the older ones will help babysit them).

Of course, now I wish I would have snapped some photos of them all lined up doing their thing. Oh well. Maybe the next gathering we can repeat some of the activities and capture it on film.

Growing Like Weeds

2012-01-13T12:59:00.000-05:00

The picture on my work computer was taken in October at a pumpkin patch. I was thinking about how big Mason was at a little over a month old and then looked at Miller's shoes. He has gone through two more sizes since then! The kids are both growing like weeds.

Mason keeps outgrowing clothes faster than I can buy them. I think I might dressing him in 12 month clothes so he can wear them more than once. He has his pediatrician appointment next week. I am excited to see how much he has grown because I swear he's put on more than a lb since our last visit. He's heavy.

Development wise, Mason seems to be doing what babies are supposed to do. We have been spending more time on our tummies together. He can lift himself up pretty good. I was worried for a while that with his fat body, he would be slow to push himself up (chest/head, not crawling position). He's been super giggly and overall quite fun. He loves to know what everyone else is up to.

Miller has been a great big brother. He let's Mason watch him play. He reads to him and keeps him company. He also likes to help with whatever he can. He would love to lift him but he's about half his own weight.
I need to load some pictures. Maybe my next post will just be photos.

Failing at One Resolution

2012-01-11T20:33:00.000-05:00

I knew the first two weeks of the new year would be busy at work and I may need to work a little extra. Never did I imagine it would be this much. The main culprit is one person who has sucked a ton of my time up (during and after work hours). I have tried to set limits. I have tried to let things go but the bottom line is my job is to make sure our clients have what they need.

The problem with this one person is that she is easily distracted by shiny objects, has overloaded her own plate, and has a holy than though attitude which makes helping her even more difficult. She has no concept of time zones or personal commitments. I have vowed that after tonight, I am not going out of my way to assist her anymore. If I get in trouble, so be it.

I missed dinner with the family tonight. I didn't even see Mason. I had time to read Miller two books and then he went to bed. Ryan was sick so he went to bed too. I had to reheat my dinner and eat alone. I was back to work to wrap up what I had left to see them in less than 45 minutes (that includes taking time to do the dishes).

I am publicly announcing that I will not do this except for dire emergencies. There is a line, it was crossed and I need to get back to keeping normal hours. It's too early to fail this resolution.

Shopping Spree

2012-01-07T19:25:00.000-05:00

I wish I was bragging about a shopping spree for myself but this one was for Mason. The poor boy has had only a few new outfits of his own but since he's such a big dude, he didn't even get to wear some of them! Miller must have bypassed 9 month clothes because I can barely find any. After looking at my baby in clothes that would make a deep sea diver jealous, I decided he needed a new wardrobe (that and his teacher sent home several outfits that she said were too small).

I thought I had some money to burn on a gift card so I headed to Babies R Us. I found a few outfits on sale and paid full price for a few others. I bought him a couple new teething toys (Miller didn't like the ones we had and Mason is feeling the same way). When it came to checkout, my gift card only had $10 left on it. Oh well.

For $120 Mason got the following:
10 bibs
12 onesies
5 pants
2 sweatshirts
2 teething things
Nipples for his bottle

and Miller got a new pair of PJ's. Not too shabby. I wish I could leave a store with that much loot for that price.

Ryan and Miller went shoe shopping today (Miller's up to a 12.5 shoe!). They both came home with new tennis shoes. I went to Target and Miller ended up with a pair of camo pants. I left with eye liner for myself. Hmmmm....I seem to be the only one who didn't get any clothing related items today. Maybe I will make that up in a couple weeks with a spree for myself.

Resolution Tracking

2012-01-06T11:48:00.000-05:00

I know people are usually good at sticking to their resolutions the first week or month which is why I normally don't make them. I figure if I really want to do them, I will do them on my own time. This year I jumped on the bandwagon with everyone else and set goals early in a public forum. So, one thing I know is if I report an update once and a while, it will keep me motivated. Don't worry, they won't be once a week but I did have to share the following:

1) Vacation with Ryan: plans are under way with a few couples from MN. The destination is narrowing and it looks like it might be a trip to Vegas. Whoot woo! The babysitters are lined up and just waiting on a confirmation of dates.
2) Time with friends: I am going to a happy hour this evening with some work friends. If any of my non-work related friends want to join, let me know. It's not an exclusive group by any means. The more the merrier.
3) Exercise and nutrition: So far, I have "worked out" with strength training 2 days this week and one day of cardio. Not too bad considering Monday was a "holiday" and that meant no workout. As far as eating, back on a much more normal diet that excludes all of those holiday snacks and goodies. I even had a drink free night and one with only 1 glass of wine.

Work wise I knew I wouldn't be able to limit my time until at least mid-month. So, I am doing pretty well and feel like the resolutions/goals are obtainable this year. Now, if I can keep this up, 2012 might turn out to be a good year.

Back to Work

2012-01-03T20:53:00.000-05:00

We had a nice Christmas and I enjoyed my forced vacation. Too bad it was filled with kids each day. They are adorable and I love them dearly but they are draining. I can't wait for a much need vacation. I have officially started looking for a March or April escape. Almost all of the "parents" at work had similar comments about loving their time at home but happy to send the kids back to school or daycare. We spent a good portion of the morning comparing cute stories from Christmas. They are loveable and those short moments of humor, love, and coolness make up for the hours of annoying, naughty or in general, bad behavior.

In the meantime, work will have to be my kid free zone. The next two weeks are going to be super busy and then I should get back to a normal pace. As busy as it is, it does feel good to flex my brain muscles again. Hopefully you have noticed but ever since I switched jobs a year ago, I have not really complained too much about work. Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of hair pulling moments and under breath swear words each day but in general, I am lucky to have the position I do now. In fact, most of the annoyances and frustrations are laughable since they are caused by morons. I have either lost the ability to get super worked up or I have gained a saintly amount of patience. You pick. Either way, I hope 2012's work world continues on a mostly sane and manageable path.

Bandwagon Resolutions

2011-12-30T20:36:00.000-05:00

I am jumping on the bandwagon and setting some goals this year. It appears I took a hefty hiatus last year and didn't set any.

2012 Goals:

Family:

Spending quality time with the kids (see also work goals as they are tied to this). Ryan and I started setting time aside with Miller where we do "dates." It's a fun way to still give him some needed one on one time and we really enjoy the little boy he is becoming. Mason obviously gets one on one time but until he's a little older, dates really aren't that exciting with him.
Ryan and I need time alone sans kids. Although a date night once a month would be glorious, we know that once every two months is a more realistic goal. We would hate to tire of each other by July. ;)

Work:

Continue to try to limit my working hours so I have time in the evening with the kids. There are times when I can't but I am trying to limit those to only urgent/crunch times.
Network and try to build some resume worthy items. I feel now that I am done breeding, it's time to start preparing for either a chosen career change or be prepared for the inevitable layoff that will come sooner than later.

Personal:

Find some time to read books again. I have quite a few piled up that need my attention and it feels more productive than watching tv.
Find a hobby. I need a creative outlet or something to challenge my brain (or both). I think I will look into a few small ideas before I tackle the larger concept of learning to fly or going back to school for a JD or a PhD.
Lose the jiggle. This one is easier said than done but now that I know there will be no more kids, it's time to focus on putting this body back into some shape other than flabby and round. I am not going to drop 20lbs in a couple months. I am not going to suddenly run a marathon or bench press anything. I just want to work on changing my bad habits into good ones. With that in mind, a better body and self image should follow.

Other:

Remember to schedule some time with friends such as lunch, happy hour, or shopping without the kids. Notice the theme...spend time with kids but not all my free time. I think this is the cliche "balance" I am missing.
Review our savings situation and my investments (this may even be a hobby). I have been investing since I was 16 but can't tell you anything about what I am in or how it works. Time to proactively figure out where my money is (and our money). Retirement is right around the corner, right?
Take a real vacation with Ryan-only Ryan. Realistic goal-short cruise in the spring. Wish list item would be a longer trip in the fall. Next year...over seas trip. Time to plan this year for that one.

So there are my goals, in a public forum so I can't take them back. I figure they are obtainable (SMART) goals. Let's see if I can check these puppies off my list and possibly take them a few steps further than "initial" goals.

Christmas

2011-12-26T12:33:00.000-05:00

Christmas 2011 recap bullet style...

Friday, Miller's head collides with my nose. We debate for 2 days as to whether it is broken. Final verdict, definitely fractured, possibly a small break. Luckily, I didn't turn black and blue. It just hurts like mad and is swollen.
Saturday, power outtage at 8am. FPL call at 8:15. No power until almost noon. Reminder of how dependent we are on power and hurricane survival mode kicked in. Warmed water on the grill for Mason for a bottle. FPL did a temp fix and in about 2 weeks we will have a new line run to the house. We got our hot showers in, baked, cooked, and had everything ready to go before Todd, Kaye, Sara, and Andrew made it to our house (their cruise ended Christmas Eve and their flight wasn't until Christmas day).

Miller and Mason were the best kids. Both had a really good day. Mason was extra smiley. Miller played by himself for hours with lego's while we visited with the relatives. He go to stay up extra late opening presents and went to bed suprisingly well.

Sunday, Santa brought Miller and Mason "just what they wanted." We finished opening more presents. Later in the afternoon, Jess, Jerry, Norah, and Caleb stopped over to share in the holiday cheer (eat more food) and let the kids run some stink off.

After dinner we tried the new Kinect games we got. Disneyland was a little too hard for us to figure out so after Miller went to bed, we started dancing. Ryan was banished to another room and my dad went to bed. We stink at dancing but had fun laughing at ourselves.

Monday, Ryan made us a big breakfast. Then we got cleaned up, took a few photos and the family was off. I will clean later. I am looking forward to a nap.

Emily is correct, we will never get a family photo with all of us looking the same way and smiling. Grandpa Jeff looks a little grumpy in this one but it was the best of the bunch. The rock and tree made for some awkward poses but at least we took some.

Holiday Prepping

2011-12-22T14:51:00.000-05:00

I have been a busy lately. I have been working some extra long hours (playing catch up from leave, it's our busy time of year, and preparing to be out for 6 working days but 13 when you count the weekends and holidays). Last night I wrapped up the work related stuff.

Today was my first day off and I made a trip to Sam's Club to return a box of diapers. Mason has outgrown another size. I was fairly suprised at how quickly I was in and out and how friendly everyone was. Then I headed to Publix. I don't know what they did with their staff but the last 2 or 3 trips have been very pleasant. I got asked if I needed help by several workers and the checker and bagger actually spoke to me.

After emptying my wallet at Publix I came home to put it all away. Luckily I had cleaned the fridge and pantry before going there. It barely fits! I then cleaned our spice cupboard and another small cupboard. I wrapped the last presents that arrived and put them under the tree. I am cleaning up the last of the Christmas wrap and about to commence baking.

For a day off, I do not feel like I have sat down other than 5 minutes to wolf down lunch and then a few minutes to type this. Hopefully all of the prepping will lead to a smooth holiday weekend with family.

Mason Stats and a Weird Experience

2011-12-19T10:51:00.000-05:00

Let me quick start with Mason's stats. We had his 3 month check up today (technially, he's just shy of 15 weeks). Stats are as follows:

Height: 26 3/4 inches (97%)
Weight: 17 lbs, 14 oz (97%)

As you can see, he's a healthy boy who is eating and growing. He is meeting all of the normal milestones.

Now, onto my totally unrelated weird experience today. I stopped at Walgreens (corner of University and Atlantic today). As I was getting ready to checkout, a young girl walked in (I am guessing she could pass as a teenager but she might have been older). Her eyes were red as she approached me; she looked sad/like she had been crying; borderline scared. She asked me where the corner of University and Southgate was. Both the clerk and I told her 2 lights down and pointed to University. My first thought was not of a curious nature because it was a simple question. Then she proceeded to ask me if I would give her a ride.

I instantly said no, I am not headed that way. She started to well up with tears and said she was so confused. The clerk and I proceeded to explain the directions again and the clerk backed me up by saying it was a nice day and only 2 lights down. Then the lady behind me agreed and also added to the direction giving because clearly our directions weren't making sense. She finally gave up defeated and walked out. She was standing at the light looking confused when I left.

Now, the clerk and the lady behind me in line instantly said I did the right thing by not giving her a ride because "you never know these days." She looked harmless but I agree; you never do know. I am tempted to say even if it was raining, I wouldn't have given her a ride. I might have bought her an umbrella if she added to her sob story.

For those that know the area...the only thing at the corner of University and Southgate is a gas station, a bowling alley, and a dog park. My guess is she was meeting someone and if they were that close, could pick her up. She had a cell phone and a purse.

As I drove away, my mind flashed to the worst case/scenarion (shocking, Erin, worry?). Of course it wasn't the worst case for this girl. It was me getting her in my car, her tazing me or holding me at gun point while she robbed me or took my car. The second scenario wasn't much better. It was having a dude waiting for me at the gas station and him doing something similar. I obviously read too many murder mysteries or watch too much tv but I had to justify that leaving her behind was the right thing to do.

Pink eye?

2011-12-17T09:06:00.000-05:00

I rested a little yesterday but by bedtime, i started to think I might have pink eye. I know you shouldn't share medicine but i used a couple of Miller's drops and bundled up with an extra blanket. My eyes weren't very pink this morning. I think I will see how the day progresses before I head into a clinic.

In other news, we took a drive last night to look at lights. our neighborhood had one house completely covered in red and white lights like a candy cane. other than that, not much for over the top. Across the street, one block has arches and almost all of the houses participate. since that took all of 5 minutes, we drove over to Brian and Crystal's. They had a festive display and a lot of neighbors did too.

Once we got home, I played Ryan in scattegories. I was kicking butt until the last two rounds. He beat me by 2 points. argh! I will have to call a rematch.

Tis the Season...for Sickness

2011-12-16T07:14:00.000-05:00

This week the Froyd household was touched by the holiday bug and I don't mean Christmas cheer. Mason has been struggling with a head cold (it's so sad to see a baby with a stuffy nose). The good thing is he has remained fever free and for the most part, is keeping up with his normal intake of formula and sleeping mostly through the night. He wakes up a couple times but mainly coughs and talks himself back to sleep. It was just the first two nights that required us to get up and perform nose maintenance.

Miller on the other hand got slapped with a 102 fever and head cold. He stayed home from school with me on Wednesday. His one eye turned bright red and didn't appear to have pink eye like symptoms but we decided to call the pediatrician Thursday to make sure. Both the nurse and daycare didn't think it was pink eye but the doctor said it was and I guess I am not going to argue with that. Miller was sent home with eye drops but the daycare ladies let him make a quick stop at school to share his holiday tradition with the class and run off some steam. Ryan stayed home with him so I could work in peace. (Wed he was a sick angel, Thursday, the fever had broke for the most part and he had energy to burn.)

Side note: the new daycare manager said Miller could go back to school today since he technically had been fever free over the period of time they require and since he started his drops early yesterday. Ryan and I were shocked. The last daycare manager would have made a huge stink and not let us bring him back until Monday. It's nice when the center manager is a working parent with a kid not much older than Miller.

Finally, it's my turn. I have had a low grade fever all week. I have a stuffy nose but not a full blown cold. I would like to keep it this way! I worked like a crazy person Monday through Wednesday and yesterday worked what I would call a normal day. I had already taken today off to burn some PTO. Instead of tackling my long list of chores; I am going to do what normal people do. I am going to go back to bed and then plunk myself on the couch and catch up on some tv. I migth even take a nap this afternoon.

Life After Outlook

2011-12-12T21:24:00.001-05:00

I work for an innovative company that literally thrives on change (some good, some bad). You would think I would embrace change a little more readily, right? Not so. We switched from Outlook to Google Mail (aka: gmail for businesses). I want to think I will like it but it sucks. Yep, there, I said it. I am stuck in a mindset of how things "used to be in Outlook."

I didn't feel good Sunday afternoon. I don't know if I ate something, the kids germs were starting to get to me, or I was anticipating the Monday email horror that awaited me. It could have been withdrawal from work emails (Friday night to Monday morning without any blackberry service or webmail-oh my!). Either way, I tried to go to bed early but Mason had the beginnings of his first cold. He woke up in the middle of the night and needed some snot removal and vicks. Then Miller woke up and I had to sit with him (bathroom break and then "I had a bad dream, can you sleep with me?"). Then it was back to a baby that woke up before 5am and wasn't going back to bed.

Finally I bit the bullet and started work around 7:30. It's now 9:15 and I just wrapped for the day. I am super busy with end of year stuff (finals, new courses for January, training, etc.). Add in that dreaded email change and I was all out of whack today. The only saving grace is if I can keep this mad sprint up for a week (technically 5.5 days) I am off from the 22nd until January 3rd!

One last thing. I got a call at 5:30 that was a pure *ss chewing from a partner school. After the 20 minutes of active listening and polite responses, I called the main person responsible and politely did my own *ss chewing. It had to do with dropped balls and stuff from when I was on leave that I didn't really even become aware of until the 11th hour. The kicker, if people would just do their shit on time and adhere to my deadlines, it could all be avoided. There, I said it. Follow the process I set up and avoid the drama. Why is this such a hard concept? Whew. That felt good to get off my chest. I think I did enough fevered typing today to count as exercise. I am going to skip it tonight and go chill. Tomorrow, I will do a little extra.

Happy Holiday With My Florida Family

2011-12-11T07:51:00.000-05:00

Last night we teamed up with friends, got a babysitter, and had a good evening out with lots of laughter and food. We mixed it up this year; ditched the kids and the gift exchange for an evening out. The crew headed to Buca di Beppo's for our annual holiday get together.

I wish we would have taken a group photo. Everyone was dressed nicely in holiday appearal. It looked like we coordinated with reds, grays, black, and sparkles. Mark even pulled out his red holiday sweater for the occasion.

The kids were good for the babysitters (or so each kid and babysitter is reporting). Miller was excited to tell us about his evening when he woke up and wanted to know when we could do it again. Little does he know, those babysitters aren't free. Man, if I lose my job, I am going to open off the books babysitting service.

A giant thank you to Jess for organizing not only the dinner but childcare too. It was a fun night and my cheeks are still sore from laughing. Happy holidays to my Florida family!

Birthday Recap and Dancing

2011-12-09T07:51:00.000-05:00

My actual birthday was Tuesday. The boys let me open my presents that morning while they ate breakfast. It was fun to see Miller waiting for my reaction when I opened the presents from him. Then I sent the boys off to school and started my marathon day off.

I wrapped up all of my shopping, had lunch with a friend, and then made a huge dent in wrapping everything. I still have a couple hours of wrapping staring me in the face and I must get it done tonight so I can go stand in line at the shipping place tomorrow.

It wasn't a relaxing day but it was nice to be able to do some chores sans kids and without worrying someone was waiting for me at home.

One of the presents Ryan gave Miller and I was Xbox 360 Kinect (and a dance game). I have "danced" all but one night since I opened it on Sunday. It is basically an aerobics workout but with music and challenges to motivate you. I have tried all of the songs it came with (without unlocking additional things). Now I need to pick some I like and master them. Eventually it will feel like a workout and not as fun but for now, I am going with it and praising myself for the 45 minutes of cardio I am doing nightly. Sadly to say...I have gained weight while doing this. I know it's not muscle and I have actually cut back on calories (and drinks). I am going with water retention and am going to try to flush it out today with oodles of water. Wish me luck. I would like to stick with some type of activity and this one is the first thing I have done in months...or is it years?

Early Birthday

2011-12-04T20:52:00.000-05:00

Ryan bought Miller and I the XBox Kinect game. It's been fun but I can't believe what a workout it is. I have been playing a dance game that not only makes me feel out of shape, but I also feel like a very stiff white person. Wowza. I will not play this with others present.

Yesterday Mason and Ryan made me turtles and then today Ryan and Miller made me cupcakes.

Saturday I cleaned house and then did my annual employee appraisal and two training sessions. I have two more to finish this week and I have to do some massive work on my inbox before they migrate us to Google Mail instead of Outlook. I am not looking forward to that chore. I think most of it will be done off the clock at home.

Today I ran to Pier 1 to get a few decorations. Then Miller and I headed to Target to get a few Christmas presents. I was able to write my Christmas letter today but haven't had a chance to address envelopes (mainly because they haven't arrived yet). That will be this week's chore. I am hoping to have Tuesday off to finish my shopping and start my wrapping extravaganza.

Ryan made me a crab dinner and I think Miller ate most of it. It was delicious. I had a pretty good "early" birthday even though it was chore filled. I am hoping the week flies by because Saturday we have a babysitter and get to hang out with our adult friends (no kids!). Before you know it, it will be Christmas.

Sleeping Through the Night

2011-12-02T08:07:00.000-05:00

Mason has been sleeping until any where between 3:30 and 5:00am lately. The 3:30/4:00am time frame isn't so bad to get up with him but as he creeps closer to 5, you are basically up for the day. It's getting closer and closer to a full night's sleep.

Last night we went wakeup free (for everyone). Miller didn't wake up to go the bathroom (nor did Ryan or I). Mason slept until 6 am. He did wake up earlier but talked himself back to sleep. Yay! I know it's not a permanent thing yet but you forget how nice it is once you start to get uninterrupted sleep again. Maybe Santa is bringing me an early Christmas gift!

First Day Back At Work

2011-11-30T07:16:00.000-05:00

Tuesday was my first day back at work. I had moments where I felt like I had maybe been gone a day and others where I felt so out of the loop. One thing is constant-always more work than a person can do in a day. As I stated multiple times about how I was going to set boundaries; I found myself eating lunch at my desk and working 10 straight hours. I did get someone to cover the night class I was supposed to monitor. A 12 hour day on my first day back is ridiculous. I did put my foot down on that.

Mason and I were up early this morning so this whole drinking coffee thing might become part of my new morning routine. I am debating on a hot cup of Joe or a nice hot cup of tea. Either way, it appears my trip into the home office consists of me carrying a giant water bottle, something hot to drink and my mid-morning snack. I need to find a way to squeeze in some exercise during the day and also figure out the laundry/chore schedule. Last night I found myself doing laundry because Mason soaked through 5 bibs at school yesterday. (some days he is a clean eater, others, not so much)

Time to shower and get ready for another work day. I have some training to complete, my annual appraisal, and some HR/Payroll business to take care of. I don't think they will be completed today as I have meetings starting at 9 and running through most of the day plus real work to do. Like I said, always more work than time.

Long Long Weekend

2011-11-27T16:11:00.000-05:00

Our long weekend was, well, rather long. We kicked off the festivities with the Turkey Trot 5K Thursday morning. By we, I mean our friend Andy who was visiting ran along with Jess. The rest of us watched, cheered, and then had donuts to celebrate their hard work. The kids enjoyed the early morning fresh air so a nap was had before we headed off to Thanksgiving dinner at the Polich's.The kids were really good on Thanksgiving, the food was fantastic, and everyone had a good time.

Friday we hung out at home and had some friends over for pool time. I didn't get in the pool but the boys and Rylee did.

Saturday we headed to the beach to play in the sand. It was so windy, we could barely stand up much less throw a football. Miller had fun and we wore him out. Mason liked the wind on his toes too. We walked down to Beach Place for our annual post-Thanksgiving lunch at Hooters. I spilled a beer down my lap within seconds of sitting down. Luckily it was windy out and dried me off be the time we had to walk back to the truck.

We ended Saturday with a mini-shrimp boil. Yum, yum! The kids were wild and I think their goodness was wearing thin.

Today we ventured out to have the kids' pictures taken. I misread the directions and took the wrong road. We figured out we were almost a half hour north of where we needed to be 10 minutes before our scheduled time. We called and arrived 20 minutes late. They accomodated us and let us squeeze in but Mason was being a fussy pants. So, back to the waiting area we went, had a bottle, sat for what seemed like an eternity and gave it another try. That time we were successful. Then we had to wait for more than an eternity to look at the pictures and then order them. It took forever to get to be our turn and I blame it on the people ahead of us who took over a half hour to pick out their photos! My goodness, it's not that hard. I had mine looked over, the number of prints and sizes figured out and done in under 10 minutes (and that included having to wait for the lady to come back and take my order and have her re-enter it twice because she forgot to save it). This took up our entire day. We left at 10am and didn't get home until 3:15pm. UGH! Not how we planned on spending our Sunday.

Tomorrow is my last day at home. I have to make a trip to the eye doctor. Other than that, I had planned on putting up the tree but that might have to wait until the weekend. We will see how ambitious Ryan is regarding "finding" the tree in the garage and getting it down (and if I really want to start decorating it).

Mason's First Day of School (aka Daycare)

2011-11-21T07:13:00.000-05:00

Today is Mason's first day of school (aka daycare). He went to bed around 7 last night, slept until 4am (AWESOME), had a bottle, tossed and turned for over an hour, and then sound asleep until we had to wake him up at 6:30 to get dressed, pose for a picture, and head out the door.

Notice, it's tough to smile when you aren't awake. Miller hopped in for a few photos too showing off his new haircut. We went Sunday to get it cut and he had a new lady cut it. She was soooooo much better than the last one. He also sat on the chair by himself this time (read that mommy forced him, he cried, and eventually I won). The last couple times I had him on my lap and it was not fun for me or the stylist.

Other than that, the weekend was filled with chores. Ryan pressure washed the pool deck and sidewalks (looks great!). He also mowed. I cleaned house and did boatloads of laundry. Today I have an eye appointment and a chore list a mile long that I have been waiting to do once kid free. I better get cracking.

Mason's 10 week stats

2011-11-17T12:18:00.000-05:00

We had Mason's 10 week checkup today. All is good and on track (and we didnt have to wait an hour this time).

height: 26 inches (97 percentile)
weight: 15 lbs 9 oz (97 percentile)

yes, he's a 2.5 month old in a 6 month old body.

He also had 3 shots and a cocktail ( which he sucked down without a single pause). so far, he seems ok- no increase in temp or fussiness. let's hope it stays that way.

Daycare Part 1

2011-11-16T22:11:00.000-05:00

This week Mason and I made the infamous trip to daycare. I set up his stuff and chatted with the teachers. Luckily, they are the same infant teachers that Miller had so I was pretty comfortable with their approach to infant care and knew what to expect.

Overall, I am feeling pretty good about Mason starting daycare but I am waiting for the hormonal mom emotions to take over. His first official day is Monday. I know in my head he will be ok and that there really isn't an option for me as a working mom other than daycare. I NEED to go back to work. I love my tiime off and being with Mason but I am not meant to be a stay at home mom (at least for an infant). I would do much better with school age children where we could do lesson plans and crafts.

The time off from work was good for Miller and I. We did have a few times together over the past 2.5 months where it was just the two of us. Today I surprised him and took him to lunch. He was giddy about it. Tonight we worked on a homework assignment together and it was actually fun to see his mind working.

I know I am going to have a tough time over the next couple weeks with going back to work and sending my baby (who is now smiling and interacting with me) to school. Since the cat just crawled in my lap, I guess that's a sign that I still have someone to snuggle with during the day. Too bad it's Jazzy who may eat me at any moment without notice. She and Annie will probably be happy to have the house back to normal from 7-4:30 each day too. :)

Updates

2011-11-13T13:48:00.001-05:00

We have been busy almost every week with something going on while I have been on maternity leave. We had many guests visit and last weekend, my parents were here to babysit so we could attend a friend's wedding.

The wedding was great. I have a few pics but most were just us being cheesy. Nothing worth posting. There were a few classic ones though that I may need to email to the "subjects" for a good laugh.

Miller had a fantastic week at school and home. It's been rough for the past couple months. We knew he would try us with Mason's arrival; which he did. Now it seems to have sunk in what our routine is and that Mason is here to stay so he better just get used to it. Also, it was our first "non-something going on" week in months.

Ryan had a little "procedure" done this week so I had Miller duty all weekend. Miller and I had fun and he was a pretty darn good guy. I finally cashed in on my date with him today. We went to Puss in Boots. It was cute-worth buying the dvd, not worth 3D theater prices. He sat through the whole movie and kept his questions/talking to a minimum. I was very happy and would take him again if I win the lottery. $33 for the two of us...ridiculous!

Ryan finally got a taste of Mason's fussiness that I get during the week. Luckily for him, crying doesn't bother him as much as it does me. I can take the crazy blabbing, dog barking, older kid whining over crying any day. It's a good way to balance out the annoyances in our life. LOL!

Next week has me taking Mason to school to meet his teacher, get his crib/essentials set up, and "practice" leaving him for a couple hours. He also has his 10 week check-up at the pediatrician. I know in my head everything will be fine but I can tell I am going to have a rough time with it (the daycare drop off). I am sure I will have an emotional post regarding those details.

The week of Thanksgiving he officially starts school so I can have 3 days to myself. Then it's back to work for me on Tuesday, November 29th. Wow, time sure does fly. Guess it's time to hurry and finish a few things I wanted to do on my time away from work. I knew I made my list too long!

Cockroach Experience

2011-11-04T06:49:00.000-05:00

A couple weeks ago I was startled by a giant cockroach who crossed my path at 2 or 3am (I was getting a bottle ready for Mason). I had seen a couple prior to that incident but that one was the final straw. The next day I went to battle with cleaning out drawers/cupboards and setting traps.

Other than the giant one that made an appearance this weekend it has been rather roach free in our house. I actually made a mental note of it last night when I was making a bottle. Then around 2:30am...

I was startled by a sensation on my elbow. I brushed it away. Then I felt it again. I thought it was a spider and then felt it on the hand I brushed my elbow with. I jumped up and turned on the light expecting to see a spider or something similar that was trying to sample my flesh. Nope, it was a giant cockroach! I have never been so grossed out in my life. I had the creepy crawlies after that and had a tough time going back to bed.

Time for more traps in other areas of the house. I will win this battle. Die evil cockroach, die!

Halloween Weekend

2011-11-02T07:39:00.000-05:00

Emily came to visit for the weekend. We had plenty of activities planned (even with all of the rain). I could write a novel so to spare you I will highlight and post a few pics instead.

Friday:
Mason and I picked Emily up at the airport. On the way back we picked up Miller who was bouncing off the walls to see her. We decided to start making the Halloween sugar cookies and cupcakes with him that evening. He did a good job but Emily and I quickly learned that baking is not our strong suit. We botched the cookies and cupcakes.

Saturday:
Emily and I finished frosting the cookies and decided the cupcakes were inedible. We sent Ryan to the store to buy some (thank you Publix). We also prepped a cheese platter (halloween shaped cheese cookie cutters were used). At this point, we decided it is fun in theory but people who actually host parties with all those details must be nuts and more talented than us. We were much better at prepping a table for crafts with the kids.

The monsoon struck around party time so that put a damper on any outside activity for the kids (and for some of our guests to paddle to our house). In typical kid fashion, most of the kids wore out their joy for their costume before the party and weren't in the mood for pictures. I think all of us posted that we missed getting our usual line up of families. My sister noted we were all to busy chasing our own kids. At least the kids had fun, swapped costumes, and two got naked in the rain (for once, it was not a Froyd acting crazy!). ;) My craft idea was a good one but the kids were too wild. I sent home the extra supplies with everyone and it sounds like there was more crafting the next day. Yay! All in all, a good party.

Sunday:
Emily and I left the boys at home and went shopping. We were not very successful but it was fun to get out and shop.

Monday:
Emily and I took the boys to the science museum. Miller had a good time. Then we played a little before it was time to trick or treat. With the rain, not many kids were out. We were the first through our neighborhood so Miller made out like a champ. He had fun and was very brave to knock on doors, say trick or treat, and thank you without being prompted. Too bad we had an epic battle before that almost prevented him from going. Darn 3 year olds!

After trick or treating, we dropped Miller off and headed out for a delicious cheese platter and wine at a local cheese store. It was yummy and I can't wait to go back.

Tuesday:
Em babysat Mason while I went to the doctor. She got a morning full of smiles (and dirty diapers). Then it was off to the airport.

Good weekend and visit. Too bad her last weekend in her 20's was spent looking at what the 30's will do to you ;) LOL!

Typical

2011-10-28T11:28:00.000-05:00

Earlier this week I had a meltdown due to crying baby. Jess offered to take Mason for a couple hours this morning so I could have some alone time. It worked out perfectly because I needed to clean the house and as you know, that's therapy for me.

I dropped off Mason at 8am and picked him up at 10:30. In typical Erin luck/karma, he slept the whole time at her house. That was the easiest babysitting gig she has probably had in years. I figured when I got home he would be a wiley little guy and crossed my fingers as I started to mop the floors. Then I crossed them even harder when I took a shower.

In untypical fashion, Mason slept until noon! Someone must have decided it was time for things to get back to a more normal pace or at least give me a break from the insanity. I have no idea what's in store for me this afternoon or evening but thank you to Jess for forcing me to accept the break she offered me and thank you to the karma god *and probably a little thanks to Mason too for getting mommy needed him to shape up.

Soon I will be off to the airport to pick up Emily. I don't know who is more excited; her or Miller.

Sleep Deprivation

2011-10-26T10:20:00.000-05:00

Every new parent complains about sleep deprivation. Up until a couple nights ago, I thought I was doing pretty well with it. I haven't been overly grouchy. I haven't consumed a ton of caffeine to make it through the day (in fact, most days I don't have any). I haven't completely lost my mind.

I have been fighting a cold and I can't beat it. It's definitly winning with runny eyes, nose, sore throat...I know it's mostly due to sleep deprivation. At the same time, Mason has had a bout with diarrhea.

I have said he's more sensitive than Miller was and loves to be held and hates to sleep in his crib (or anywhere else). He's doing ok at night but the day time is a disaster. I have finally had enough. I don't think it's colic but he's borderline.

This of course is the time I start to doubt my abilities as a parent (btw, he's screaming right now but I am over it. I just turn up the radio louder). He doesn't seem to have the same gassy fussiness Miller had. He is just overly tired and won't stay asleep during the day. He's been awake for 5 hours with 10-20 minutes of "dozing" (in my arms of course). I know he's not hungry (no kid eats every hour!). He's dry. I have changed scenery, positions, clothing, etc. We are going to try a walk in a few minutes but that means he has to give me enough time to put clothes on and my shoes. Wish us luck because once we are home, it will start all over again.

I love the kid and the 10 seconds of smiles a day melts my heart but I am ready to go back to work. This is not enjoyable and making me feel like a terrible mom. I think the dog and cat feel the same way. Any suggestions on what to do with a spoiled baby who only loves to be held (the baby bjorn doesn't work for me-he's too big for me to actually do anything).

Weekend Recap

2011-10-24T09:00:00.000-05:00

We had a great weekend in many ways. The weather was fabulous which spurred an impromptu Friday night gathering at our house. Connie brought a fantastic pot of soup to share and the kids (including Pete and Jerry) ran around like wild cats to burn off some steam and enjoy the fresh air.

Saturday I wasted my day at the dealership (see previous post) but Ryan was able to get a ton of yard work done. We stayed close to home which was nice after having had visitors or been away so many weekends in a row.

Sunday morning Miller and I made muffins. We bought 2 new trees for the backyard and a plant for out front by the street. I was able to make a trip to Target without kids which was a blessing. I was able to browse and skip the toy aisle along with the 20 minutes "no, you can just look, we are not purchasing" battle.

Miller and I made a thank you card and played baseball. We ate on the porch last night with the doors open to watch the game. Miller even got to stay up and watch the dinosaur (Terra Nova) tv show with us.

Although Mason's been battling diarrhea this weekend, he's been a pretty good baby. I think I am going to buy stock in Pampers and Enfamil. We seem to keep those two businesses in the black.

Yep, that's an ordinary, boring weekend at our house and I actually enjoyed it.

Volvo Experience Take 2

2011-10-22T12:03:00.000-05:00

I love my Volvo. It has been a great car so far and I have no complaints about it. The only issue I have is with my service appointment experiences. I bought my car in Weston and did my first free service there. It was on a busy Saturday and took longer than I anticipated but not the end of the world. Since we moved, I switched dealers for service due to location/convenience. They are striking out and I will be making a point of driving to Weston for all future maintenance work.

As you may recall, a while back, I made a morning drop off appointment that they lost. Then it took them all day to finish my car and I hounded them up until they closed to get it done so I could take it home. This time, I made an appointment for 9am (oil change). Jiffy Lube can get you in and out in under an hour even when they are super busy so I told Ryan I would take it and wait there until it was done. At the 2+ hour mark I asked them what the hold up was (they had taken too many car emergencies in, short a technician, etc.). Of course by that point they claimed they had started on it. At the 2.5 hour mark I asked how much longer and received the proverbial 10-15 minute estimate. At the 3 hour mark I went and grabbed the managers card and told the lady at the desk how upset I was and that this was my last time visiting them.

I knew she couldn't do anything for me but I calmly stated my frustration and went back to give the other service lady the evil eye even though it wasn't fully her fault (she was overwhelmed and I explained I understand emergencies but appointments should be seen especially if they are here waiting. If it's going to take longer due to an emergency, tell me and I would have left and come back later). She said don't give me a bad rating on the survey. I said sorry, I know you are doing your best but I am not rating this experience well.

She got a service manager to come speak to me. He gave me his song and dance and I repeated my concern that 2 times in a row with poor service is enough. I won't be back and that I am frustrated over such a simple procedure. He apologized and told me he wouldn't charge me for my tire rotation. Good job dude but that $30 savings didn't make up for 3.5 hours of wasted time. I did get a car wash too which was nice since I really needed one but that is part of the service I get with going there so it wasn't really a "freebie" to make me feel good.

I think I am going to call the other manager on Monday and complain. Maybe I can get some more freebies or at least feel like I voiced my concerns and move on to the other dealership. It may still take me 3 hours for an oil change with driving time but hopefully I will walk away satisfied and feel that I held true to my "I am not coming back" claim.

*the icing on the cake was I was one of 4 people in the complaint department. The one lady said she loves her car but hates their service. The guy ahead of me ended up calling for a ride and left. He was peaved at the situation he was in. The lady after me had dropped her car off Friday for a Saturday morning pick up. They hadn't even done the paper work to look at it when I was leaving. They told her it wouldn't be done until Tuesday now! (She had scheduled her drop off with the guy I had last time that lost my appointment. For her's, he didn't even write down what she needed done and didn't have any contact info for her. She luckily stopped in to check on it.)

Fall

2011-10-21T13:47:00.000-05:00

I love fall. I love it for many reasons; trees that change colors, the crisp feeling in the air, fall clothes are more appealing, and I used to associate fall with back to school.

Living in FL really reminds me how much I miss fall (we only have 2 seasons, hot and humid and hot and not so humid) but this week a cold front moved in and I am in heaven. I did some yard work last night once the boys got home from work/school. I wore a 3/4 length sweater and scarf yesterday. Today, I have the windows open and have continued what others probably consider spring cleaning.

Jess, Mason and I sat out on the patio for lunch and some chit chat time. It was gorgeous outside. I hope it continues because this is why I live in FL. I love it!

Mother's Wish

2011-10-20T06:13:00.000-05:00

I may not have birthed two girls but I think my mother's wish came true; "I hope you have a kid just like you." So far, Miller's stubborness and sass is probably coming from me. Mason, I thought, was too little to exhibit Erin-like qualities but I was wrong. Supposedly his lack of daytime napping is something I did as a baby. Which my mother always told me was a pain but I slept all night. I would be ok with this too if Mason slept all night but he doesn't. In fact, last night was worse than other nights this past week. Here's to my own motherly wish...please take a nap today and start sleeping through the night or at least in longer stints.

Weekend Review

2011-10-18T07:34:00.000-05:00

Friday we headed up to my parent's house for a fun filled weekend. Rather than be wordy, here are the pictures we took (but first, a sneak peak at someone's halloween costume). We went to Sweetwater Farm for some action packed farm fun (corn maze, hay ride, hay climbing, potato cannon, pumpkins, etc.) and then to Busch Gardens for some new thrill rides (Miller met a new height milestone). Yes, he went on that roller coaster!

Mason 5 Week Stats

2011-10-17T06:35:00.000-05:00

Mason is a good eater. That's all his stats tell me.

Height: 23 inches (75th percentile)
Weight: 12 lbs 8 oz (95th percentile) He has gained almost 4 pounds since birth!

Miller was taller (23 3/4 inches) and weighed around 10 lbs something at this time. Who knows how they will pan out over time but so far, Mason is the heavy weight of the family.

In addition to a 5 week checkup, we took a road trip to G&G Sladky's this weekend. Tomorrow's post will detail out the pumpkin patch/farm fun and a trip to Busch Gardens. These kids are spoiled. I never did this kind of stuff at their age.

Comparison

2011-10-13T11:15:00.000-05:00

Although one should not compare their eldest with their youngest Ryan and I find ourselves noticing what's different between the kids. I have decided Mason is "sensitive" and definitely more fussy than Miller was. Maybe it's selective memory but I feel like Mason cries a lot more and the moments of peace are only in 10-20 minute bursts throughout the day. Just like now. He should be sleeping but after about 10 minutes of quiet (which came after a 20 minute bought with full blown hysterics) he's back at it. He's dry. He's been fed. He shouldn't have any gas left except this crying keeps introducing it to him more than what's in his food. Argh!

I better go see what's troubling him this time. I am sure he just wants to be held.

Playin'

2011-10-12T13:30:00.000-05:00

Mason has started to show more interest in his toys. We never bought Miller a mat with the dangly toys when he was a baby as he was cool with the ones on his swing and bouncer. Mason, not so much. He seems to love having them held over him so I put out a call for a play mat to borrow. Shannon had one and dropped it off today. The little guy wasn't in the mood for playing while she was here but shortly after our guests left, he decided it was the best toy ever. Thanks Shannon, Rylee, and Connie!

Rylee will have to come back to see him play with it. She was so excited and he was too crabby to show her the fun side of babies. She did get a chance to hold him (while he grumbled). She also had a chance to help burp him. It sure is nice having all these little munchkin helpers around. They are turning out to be excellent big brothers and sisters.

Thanks again for letting us borrow the play mat and for the quick visit!

Grandma and Grandpa Froyd Week

2011-10-11T08:19:00.000-05:00

This past week Grandma and Grandpa Froyd were here to visit Mason and Miller. Both kids were spoiled rotten. Isn't that what G&G's are for?

Miller had plenty of play time with everyone this week. He played super heroes with Grandpa several times. They went on many walks. He got some new *flip flops. He put together a new puzzle, read books and played board games with Grandma. Oh, and they made rice krispy bars and eggs. Earlier in the week our trip to the Science Museum was a bust due to remodeling. We made the best of it though and turned that day into a park and picinic day. We also made a trip to the nearby park between rain showers to explore for dinosaurs and fight fires. Unfortunately the weather didn't work to our advantage and our plans for a trip to the zoo were foiled. It's a good thing G&G had boys because they are much more imaginative than I am for keeping Miller entertained and out of trouble. He needed to run and with the rain it was a challenge.

As for Mason, he got some new clothes and toy keys that he loves. They play music, rattle, etc. His spoiling came in the form of lots of loves and holding. G&G were a great set of hands to hold him and comfort him. It was nice to be able to go the bathroom without a crying baby rushing me. We didn't take as many pics as I had hoped. I am terrible at remembering to "capture" the moment.

We all noted how much Mason is growing in just one week. He went from a wobbly neck baby to a semi-wobbly neck baby. He also was watching and following objects more closely by the time they left. It's amazing how quickly they grow.

Miller has also amazed me with his "love" for Mason. Yesterday he came home, held him until his arm was tired and then proceeded to comfort and play with him while I was busy doing other things.

Mason's crying so I will have to post other pics later.

Creative Saturday and Random Pics

2011-10-01T12:17:00.000-05:00

Miller had a birthday party to attend today. I usually try to have him make a card. Sometimes we are successful and he's into it; other days, not so much. Today I lucked out. He had two cards to make (brother and sister b-day party). While he cut paper I cut some shapes for another card. He was into helping me glue so we made a flower for the girl's card and then put some stickers on it. When he went to sign it; he suprised me with knowing the letters of his name.

I said something along the lines of sign your name and said M...then he said I. I said L, he mumbled something and then E, R. I asked, "Did you just spell your name?" He replied with a solid "Yes." I was shocked. I knew he was working on letters but no idea he actually is starting to get his name down. It's probably normal for this age but I thought it was pretty darn good. Of course he only repeats it when he wants to.

Then he wanted to do something for the boy so we made a dump truck. It's sad to think that I was pumped to create these cards and they are far from masterpieces but I think they turned out. Take a peek at the dump truck (inside includes a ton of stickers, some "writing" from Miller, and more stickers):

After that adventure I started cleaning the house. Miller was tossing his football into the baby car seat. Then he started pushing the swing so I went out on a limb and said he should put his "Teddy" in there (yes, Teddy is a teddy bear. We keep the names pretty simple here.) He put him in and then he decided to put him in the car seat. He strapped him in. Then he told me he was hungry so I got him a bottle to play with. Mr. Observant was upset because the bottle was a drop-in and didn't have a bottom. We don't use those so he thought it was broken. Then he decided he needed a diaper "back pack" so he got that down and packed some wipes (an empty container), his bottle and Teddy. I think he was mimicking Ryan using the Baby Bjorn by stuffing the bear in it otherwise I am not so sure he is ready to take care of real baby. LOL! He proceeded to take care of that silly bear for a good half hour. "Mom, he's hungry. Mom, he's wet. Mom, he's happy. Mom, he's crying I need to check his diaper again." Then I find him putting a coaster down and the bottle on it "for when he's hungry and I need to feed him again." At least he's got our routine down and cleanly about it.

Here is a picture of Mason to tide you over:

Friday Fun Day

2011-09-30T19:31:00.000-05:00

Today I met a couple friends for lunch. We headed to "The Cheese Course." It's a new restaurant down the street. The sandwiches were great and the menu for cheese tasting looked spectacular too. I can't wait to go back. The store was cute and had lots of fun things in it but it was too small to browse at lunch time. We ended up sitting outside which was fine but definitely HOT. Mason was a great baby and slept through the whole meal.

It was great to have adult conversation with the girls. It's been a long year with pregnancies, conflicting schedules, etc. Catching up was fun. I need to make a point of getting together with everyone more often.

In kid news...Mason is starting to be more of a baby with characteristics and personality developing. It's a little too early to say what's a real reaction but when he does smile (bowel movement) he is adorable with that smile of happiness. I can't wait to witness a real smile because he's happy to see me. It is a little bitter sweet to think the "baby" as in newborn is pretty much gone. He was so big when he was born that newborn clothes were already too small.

I picked Miller up at school today and he was giddy with excitement. That's also a treat to see him get so excited he literally bounces because he doesn't know how to react. We headed to Target for some birthday party shopping (he has a swim party tomorrow) and some browsing. He did pretty well for not being able to get anything for himself. He made it through the evening well behaved and earned his final prize for being good. Since that method didn't really work, we are done with stickers for good behavior and prizes.

It was a nice Friday. Ryan made dinner and I am enjoying a Corona. Now, if the little one will go to sleep so we can struggle to stay awake to watch one tv show we DVR'd over the past 2 weeks I would be super happy.

Walking, Washing, and Wailing

2011-09-27T19:02:00.000-05:00

Today should have been Wednesday for all the W's of my day.

Walking: today Mason and I walked to Walgreen's to get formula that was on sale. I was price conscious with Miller but since we started Mason on formula so early I am truly watching the ads and using coupons. Unfortunately, Sam's club doesn't carry the kind he needs until he turns 3 months. So, if anyone receives Enfamil coupons and isn't using them, please send them my way.

As for the actual walk. It was 10:30am and a little hot and humid but not too unbearable. I found out the nice sidewalk ends about a block away from home and then turns into a bumpy, uneven, tar path. On the way back, I turned down a side street and walked back down the road to avoid some of it. The walk physically wasn't too long but it did do a number on the area that should be healing. I understand why the dr. says to limit activities while one recovers...yow-ouch!

Washing: Annie got a bath today. She was super stinky and actually knew she needed it. The only problem with a clean dog is the extra shedding. It looks like a dandelion exploded in every room of the house!

I won't mention how many bottles, vials for mixing formula and breast milk, pump accessories, etc. I have washed in the last 3 weeks since Mason was born. I am sure my water bill will reflect it enough.

Wailing: I am ok with Mason being a fussy pants during normal "working or waking" hours but all day? Some days he's an angel and some he's just not happy no matter what we do. I think he took one nap today for about 40 minutes and then the time we were on the walk. Other than that, I was lucky if I went 10 minutes inbetween his little outbursts. I tried to ignore him and not pick him up but when even the dog begs you to make it stop, you pick him up. Then even being in my arms couldn't make him happy because he was so tired. Poor thing.

Miller had a bad day at school and it continued through out the evening. I know he's upset he's not getting undivided attention. Dinner has now become a time I dread. He won't eat without a battle. Tonight I lost it and hauled him off to brush his teeth and go to bed. He's lucky he has two parents so that one prevents the other from beating him. We planned on doing something with him each night before bed where Mason doesn't interrupt. Unfortunately when he won't eat dinner and we fight about it for 20 minutes, no fun is had by anyone.

As you might have guessed, all the W's led to one more. A glass of wine to go with my own whine. I may have to make it a double tonight. Mommy had a hard day at the office!

Things That Make Mason Cry

2011-09-26T14:47:00.000-05:00

There are the known things in life that make a baby cry. They are hungry, they are wet, or they are tired (maybe toss in they don't feel good due to gas). With Mason, you would think a wet diaper is is like sleeping on a bed of nails; wait, that's his crib that does that to him. Seriously, the kid has a slight tinkle in his diaper and you would think we have been pinching him for hours with his reaction. He can sit in poo and not even blink an eye. That seems strange to me. Especially when the stench from his poo can bring you to tears. Maybe that's what he's banking on (your nose will know).

I think we are getting the nights versus days straightened out. Hopefully I didn't jinx us. His main goal for the week; learning to sleep in his crib. He really hates his crib. He doesn't really favor his rocker, his bouncer, or his swing but they are all better than the crib. I think he likes the heat from us and he likes the motion of us or any of the other items I mentioned. I know Miller didn't like his crib but we got him to sleep in it. We are at a slight loss. We keep trying it (ocean/white noise machine in his room, fuzzy blanket instead of cold sheet, closed AC vent, night light/no light, etc.). If anyone has any tips, let us know. Eventually he will use it but we would really like him to start sooner than later.

Oh, and his tolerance from not being hungry to starving is much like mine. He's fine and then all out tantrum if he doesn't get his food ASAP. I can't blame the guy. I feel the same way when I get hungry.

Other than the obvious, he's more alert. I don't remember much about the early weeks of Miller as far as tummy time, head/neck strength, and "personality" but I feel like Mason is changing daily. He is a sweety and doing well so far. We made one trip to the Dr. on Friday to have his belly button looked at. It was oozing a little. They applied some silver nitrate and sealed it up. Seems to be healing fine now. He had already gained a full pound (not surprising due to the food comment above and the amount he's been eating). We had nicknamed him "pork chop" since we jokingly called Caleb "beef cake." Miller had decided that Mason is the beef cake so Caleb is nickname free for now. The funny thing is Mason loves it when Miller says it to him and is right in his face trying to get him to laugh. It's really cute.

Personal Victory

2011-09-25T13:10:00.000-05:00

That's right folks, I am wearing my jeans! It is a small personal victory in getting back to "normal." I still have a belly but I had one before finding out I was pregnant so I will take this as a win. Now I need to reduce the "tire, donut, bagel, muffin top" whatever you want to call it. I know that will take time (and hard work) but I am celebrating wearing normal clothes today regardless of the reality. To me this just means I am one step closer to a shopping spree. :)

Sleeping Arrangements

2011-09-22T12:39:00.000-05:00

Growing up, all I ever wanted was for our yellow lab, Sissy, to sneak upstairs and sleep on the bed with me. This was NOT allowed and she knew better. I gave up trying with her and said one day when I get my own dog, she could sleep in my room with me.

After she passed on to doggy heaven; my parents got a greyhound. Cheer was not allowed on the bed but he slept in my parent's room. In the morning, my mom allowed him on the bed for a morning snuggle. Interestingly, by the time the second greyhound arrived, they were allowed on the beds for more snuggle time but not for bedtime. I couldn't sneak either of those dogs onto my bed; I had downgraded to a twin.

When Ryan and I adopted Annie, we didn't let her sleep on the bed with us. Over time, I did the same thing my mom did and let her sneak up for loves. When Ryan went out of town, I let her sleep on the bed. Eventually she started sneaking up in the middle of the night and we would wake up with her in between us.

Now we have a king size bed and she has her own spot that she proudly claims each night. No more sneaking.

Before I was pregnant, Jazzy (the cat) had started sleeping on the bed too. Then I switched sides with Ryan so I had a better "straight" shot to the bathroom in the middle of the night. She stopped sleeping with us (I am sure my tossing and turning had something to do with it). Now I am back on my normal side and our sleeping arrangements are as follows:

Jazzy, Erin's feet tucked in at an angle, Annie, space, Ryan. Somehow, Annie knows to lay at the bottom but always favors my side over Ryan's. He claims she squishes us both but I look at the real-estate space and my contorted position and know it's not 50/50.

Although I love them snuggling with me, I want my bed back. So, when Annie kicks the bucket, her replacement will not be allowed on the bed; EVER. As for Jazzy, I figure that cat will live forever so I am just going to have to get used to my foot warmer (who occasionally bites my toes).

As you may have guessed, we don't allow the kids in the bed. We made the mistake with our fur babies and won't make it with our human babies. Otherwise we wouldn't have room to breathe.

Randomness

2011-09-21T14:12:00.000-05:00

Mason and I have been trying to get on a schedule and figure out a routine. So far, we haven't gotten one down pat but I think one might be coming together. Just when I think I have it figured out, it will change. In the meantime, I have been slowly chipping away at things I wanted to get done on maternity leave.

Most are not exciting things. They are mainly organizational and cleaning related items. For example, I put up my new stuff from Pier 1 and hauled out a few fall items. I have sent some thank you notes out and took care of some appointments (I do need to make myself a dentist appt...). There are few main tasks I need to complete that I am dancing around.

The first is to update my phone and address book. I have had this on a list of to do's for forever. The second is to fill out the baby book. I might actually start that this week. The third is to tackle the hutch that moved to our bedroom. That is going to require a lot of sorting through old mail, filing, shredding, etc. and then the totes in the closet that are along the same lines. I also need to do a closet sweep but that's going to wait a little longer until I lose some more baby weight.

There are a couple cleaning related items such as dusting inside my glass cabinets in the kitchen, organizing/cleaning out some cupboards, and of course, washing some windows that are disgusting. None of these are chores that the average person would notice but since I am home 24/7, I will feel good knowing they have occured.

One last note. After having watched countless hours of HGTV already, I really want to get my window treatments completed. I am tempted to actually look at hiring a designer. I can't figure out how to finish them and few things I thought I wanted to do, I can't find "pre-made" curtains in fabric colors/patterns I want. I could sew but I stink at it and really am not sure I can pull off the larger rooms. Oh well, I have 9 more weeks to figure it all out.

Babies Are Easy (sort of)

2011-09-19T07:31:00.000-05:00

Jerry likes to tell us babies are easy. I tend to agree. Easy in the aspect that they don't sass and sit still. Not so easy in the sleep schedule. Overall, the whole household is doing well.

Yesterday we loaded up the truck to head to Mark and Meagan's for football and birthday celebrations (Happy Birthday once again Mark and Pete). I forgot how much "stuff" babies require. I seriously think of myself as a minimalist compared to others when it comes to baby stuff (I am the mom that never has snacks or sanitary stuff other than wipes) but I still felt like we packed everything but the kitchen sink. It was nice to see Jess and Jerry come with half their condo too. She confirmed she felt the same way.

Considering Miller didn't have a nap and started out with a very rough morning he did well. He was the typical 3 year old boy who needed to be on the move all day but didn't get sassy and didn't get into trouble. He shared his toys and we were able to leave before a meltdown began. As for Mason, well, he slept 99% of the time there so he was also well behaved.

Miller crashed in the car before we got home and took a nice "late" 2 hour nap. It was tough to get him to bed at an early hour but hopefully he has a good day today. Mason was a grumpistilskin last night. After Ryan finally got him down we had a nice 5 hour stint for sleep. Unfortunately, I had to get up and pump during it and then couldn't go back to sleep (waiting for him to wake up). If we could take that 5 hour stint and align it with different hours it would be heaven on earth. Hopefully he will slowly adjust so we can get a schedule in this house.

Week 2

2011-09-15T13:14:00.000-05:00

Week 2 has been pretty uneventful which is good. Ryan was home Monday and Tuesday so we ran a couple errands and even had lunch in public (shocker!). We realized first time parents are crazy (we were). This time we are much more relaxed. Don't get me wrong, I am still checking to make sure Mason is breathing and catch myself just holding him to hold him but we are more apt to just do what feels right rather than researching every little thing.

I also realized I am pushing my body too hard. It feels so good to be able to bend over and sit on the floor with the kids I don't realize how much the up and down and lifting of small things is killing me. By the end of the day, my battle wounds are sore and in need of a break. I went for a walk last evening and it felt good to get out but by the end, I was ready to find an ice pack.

On a personal note, I have lost all the baby weight and am 9lbs under my pre-pregnancy weight. That's super exciting yet depressing since I still have a baby belly. I know it takes time to shrink but I am eager to ditch the maternity wear, salvage some old clothes, and go shopping.

I have a list of chores a mile long that I want to tackle and one of them is loading some pictures. Maybe I will get to that this afternoon or evening. I cleaned 2 bathrooms today and am going to tackle cleaning Miller's room next. Hopefully the little guy sleeps a tad longer so I can get this done or, I might just take a nap.

First Dr. Appointment

2011-09-12T14:15:00.000-05:00

Mason had his first doctor's appointment today. All is well. He's back at his birth weight and the doctor said all looks good.

Our/my biggest concern is I can't keep up with his eating so I have already surrendered to the idea of him being a formula baby. This is fine by me for many reasons but I still have this guilty feeling about trying to keep giving him some breast milk. I have been a slave to the pump but am only half heartedly doing it. I figured he got the first week's worth of good stuff and I will maybe try to do a little bit more for a little longer but no promises. He's doing well with the formula but the doctor did remind me that over the next couple weeks that could change and we may have to expirement. Hopefully we don't and he has a gut like his mother's that can eat just about anything.

I was happy the doctor didn't lecture me or try to persuade me one way or the other. Like Ryan said, his main goal is to make sure Mason is healthy and growing. So...I guess I shouldn't agonize over it. I will probably ponder this a little longer but not too much.

As for big brother news; Miller has been doing extremely well as the big brother. He is very interested in helping and holding Mason. He is very concerned when he's upset too. Of course, he is also exhibiting the sassiness of a 13 year old girl and some general naughtiness/lack of listening. He can't control his excitement or jealousy quite yet. He is also sleep deprived because Mason has woke him up a few nights in a row but last night he said he didn't wake up. Hopefully over the next couple weeks things will become routine and those bad behaviors will lessen (going away is just too optimistic/realistic at this stage in the game).

Mason's Arrival

2011-09-10T11:59:00.000-05:00

It's been a little hectic so here is the first post about Mason's arrival. I promise not to get too detailed.

After waiting for what seemed like 40 years, not 40 weeks, Mason Marshall made his appearance on Tuesday, September 6th. It was his actual due date (more on that in a bit). He weighed in at 8lbs, 13 oz and was 21.5 inches tall.

Monday I called my parents to let them know to come and help out. I figured if I didn't go into labor Monday night, my Tuesday morning doctor appointment would confirm an induction date this week. I also figured if my parents were here I would quit worrying about having to call a friend in the middle of the night to come over and stay with Miller. That tactic seemed to work because Monday evening, I started having contractions.

I went to bed around 10 thinking Monday night might be the night. I never went to sleep because the contractions did start and came rather quickly. By 1:10am, I thought my water broke (different than last time). My contractions were about 10 minutes apart. I woke Ryan up, packed the rest of my bag and we were out the door before 1:30am. The 3 minute drive to the hospital was perfect. I walked into the emergency room and was up in labor and delivery for monitoring by 1:40 or so.

I was only a centimeter dilated but my contractions were 2 minutes apart. They told me to walk! I thought no way in heck was I going to be able to walk for 2 hours. I was devastated but gave it a try. After 20 minutes and not even 2 laps, I called it quits. I did more time hanging onto the railing in the hallway than actually moving. Ryan knew I was not going to make it so we headed back to the short hallway. I made one trip partially down and told the nurse I was done. She checked me and I was up to 7cm in less than 40 minutes. Time to move me to the delivery room and call the doctor in.

They got me in, blew up a vein (I warned them) but at least this time they had someone else try the second vein and it worked. I told them I wanted drugs. They told me I had to wait for my lab results. My results never came in time. The only nice moment was a 20 minute sedative that gave me a few minutes to rest and just breath through the bigger contractions. It was the stuff that made me loopy last time but at least it passed 20 minutes of time. Shortly after I was already 9cm and they were talking about pushing. What no drugs? Alright, if it's quick I can do it.

Fast forward 2.5 hours from that initial thought of if it's quick, I can do it. I will leave out the gory details of pain related activity. The only thing I will say is that Ryan had to work just as hard as I did this time. He was a huge help (and he might have enjoyed beating me up a little too in a game of tug of war with a towel to get me to push harder). I kept wishing it was over and that they would just pull the little guy out. Then, it was those few seconds of elation when he finally arrived.

He was sunny side up and those 2.5 hours were spent trying to get him to rotate face down. I found out afterwards that position adds an additional pound to the delivery because the baby can't turn its head and stretch to help come out properly. Luckily, no complications. He let out the sweet cry you wait for to know he's ok.

The process was much smoother this time since we knew what to expect and ask for. My nurses were a lot nicer too which was a huge help. I did have the breastfeeding nazi on day 2 but I pretty much ignored her. The other nurses were encouraging but were not overly pro anything. They wanted the baby and mom to be happy and healthy. Here are a few pics.

The happy (and sweaty) family right after delivery.

Mason's first pondering thought pose.

At home chillin' in his new rocker.

Re-nesting

2011-09-03T09:32:00.000-05:00

I didn't feel like I did much nesting this time around. I cleaned a few things but they seem to be items I would normally clean after a while. Since the kid isn't moving, I think I am re-nesting today. I have picked up the porch, cleaned up the kitchen, cleaned out the fridge and pantry (again), watered my plants, etc. My work computer has been cleaned up (files, work space, and transitional stuff all sent last night). Now it's time for normal cleaning.

Ryan took Miller to the track this morning to give me some time alone and I am so bored. I know I should be totally enjoying these last few moments of me time but since I don't feel like shopping or doing anything fun, it seems like a total waste. Can't I have this time in a couple weeks when I will need it most?

Not even an accident will get this kid moving

2011-09-02T06:15:00.000-05:00

Yesterday started off with every Mom or Dad's dreaded phone call-Miller had an accident at school, come pick him up. Ryan got the call (thank goodness) and called me on his way down to the daycare. Miller fell and hurt his tooth. The description went from almost knocked out, dangling, to very loose in about an hour. Luckily, I had asked the pediatrician for a good kid dentist and had a list in my purse. I called and spoke with a very nice (and calm) receptionist. She assured me it would be ok.

Ryan and Miller called me back after their visit to the dentist. The tooth is loose and in a new position and it may survive, it may not. Either way, he didn't lose it yet and he was ok. The dentist's office sounds like a kids dream. Video games, toys, rocket ship dentist chairs, etc. Ryan said Miller was super brave and did well even when the dentist pushed on his tooth and gums. He of course was happy to get Captain America stickers and a toy motorcycle on his way out.

I instantly felt sick to my stomach when Ryan called. I started crying and worrying even though I knew in my head he would be ok. Then I figured after the hour of waiting to hear from them, the stress might kick start LBF#2's trip to the outside world. Wrong. I drank some caffeine yesterday to shake him up. All that did was make him active in a room built for a 25 week old, not an almost 40 week old.

By the end of the day I am always uncomfortable and he starts moving around. I had hoped some of my discomfort last night was the start of some labor pains. If they were, they were only Braxton Hicks or general discomfort. I woke up feeling the same as every other day. Ugh! I guess the only thing I know for sure at this point is he will be a September baby.

Looks like I will have to work one more day. My brain has checked out and I have a packed day of meetings I am leading. I wish I was just a participant who could go on mute and watch tv on the side. I am ready to be done with work.

Is It A Sign?!?!

2011-08-31T12:11:00.000-05:00

Last night I actually slept pretty well. I am wondering if it just because I have been sleeping so horribly or if it is really my body giving me a decent night's rest before the labor process begins? To add to my wonderment; I actually took a nap during lunch today. I feel like I have been hit by a train and just need to close my eyes for a bit. I can't wait for bedtime tonight. I am exhausted.

Zero Progress

2011-08-29T11:12:00.000-05:00

I had my 39 week check up today. Zero progress. With Miller, I am pretty sure I had some movement around 36-37 weeks because I delivered a week early and remember a week or two of being slightly dialated. I had a hunch this one was going to be stubborn. So, the plan is to go in a week from tomorrow on my due date if I haven't had the baby yet. I will get an ultrasound to see how he's doing and how much room he has. If all is well, we will schedule an induction. If he's not happy, they are going to admit me that day.

I am overly frustrated because I am uncomfortable no matter what position I am in. I feel very hormonal and just want to get to the next phase. Hopefully some of my eviction notice conversations with the kid will start to work and he will pack up and move on out.

It's good on the work front because it means I have more time to get some stuff done and my leave will push closer and closer to covering Thanksgiving. The only downer is more and more work keeps coming in and I keep trying to deflect.

On Target

2011-08-27T15:28:00.000-05:00

My lack of desire to shop at Target had me thinking I must be in a funk. I used to spend an hour there easily and come home happy. As of lately, I have not been happy with the Target stores around our new house. They had poor selection and normal items were hit and miss (meaning, usually out of stock when I needed them most).

There must have been a changing of the tides. I went and spent almost 1.5 hours there (by myself-heavenly) waddling around and filling up my cart. I bought cleaning products, scented oils, yard decorations, big boy shampoo/body wash for Miller, a few surprises for him when LBF#2 arrives, debated on a few other things and waited to purchase them at a later time.

It's probably my last attempt at nesting-I stocked up on toilet paper, toothpaste, other cleaning products...yeah, because no one can make the 5 minute trip to Publix if we were to run out. Roll your eyes, I am.

In addition, I feel like this baby isn't coming anytime soon. So, my dreams have switched from baby stuff to putting on human clothes again. The fall magazines are arriving fast and furious. It's hard to look at them when it's 98 degrees out and I am as big as Shamu but it has me longing for a massive shopping spree in the near future. I can't wait to basically do a complete overhaul in my closet. I took an inventory and made up my mind almost all of it will go. I have held off on buying myself massive quantities of new clothes knowing I was fat, knowing I was going to get pregnant, and now, being pregnant. It was also a tell tale sign when a favorite pair of shoes disintegrated from their soles last week.

The dreams of real clothes might also have to do with the fact I haven't looked down and seen my feet in months. I have to use a chair to reach anything higher than the bottom shelf in the kitchen because my tummy gets in the way (now I know what short people feel like). I do the dishes with it lugged up on the counter so I can reach the faucet. I completely soaked myself washing my face last night because bending over and clearning the sink were not achievable. It's time little guy. It's time.

More Pictures

2011-08-24T17:58:00.000-05:00

Here's another random post with updates and pictures.

First, the baby room. It needs some window treatments and wall art but for now, I don't think the little guy will mind what it looks like.

Miller and Norah at Monster Jam. I didn't make it this year but I am sure I will be there next year.

Miller floating in the pool. Not sure why he's in the baby float but he was having fun.

And a general update on pregnancy. I had my 38 week checkup this week and there is zero progress. He's head down (but has been since my trip to the ER) so that didn't surprise me. I had asked about the hurricane that was coming (my appt was on Monday when the hype of Irene was ramping up). The doctor told me I wouldn't need to camp out. Amen!

I figure this will be my last week going into the office. By the end of the day I am exhausted and the extra time spent driving to and from work is much better spent in bed or with my feet up on the couch. Plus, I really can't handle any more random comments by complete strangers telling me I am huge and that they can't believe it's ALL out in front. I wish the skinny everywhere else comments made up for it but it just makes me feel even more freakish. Plus, the general fear of my water breaking at work has set in. I know it's not a big deal, I have a towel in my car and a sweater at my desk but having to ask someone to fetch it for me or drive me home just seems like unnecessary stress right now.

I did go back and read a post from when I was in the home stretch with Miller. I was technically 11 days out from my due date (today I am 13) and my symptoms are the same. Tired, swollen feet by the end of the day, ready to be done. Considering Miller came a week early, I may have a baby next week. I am not banking on it since this one seems to be more stubborn but one can hope.

My nesting is pretty much done. I only want the actual house cleaned up and I am not going to sweep, mop, or vacuum. Ryan will have to do it to please me. Otherwise, it appears everything is in order as much as it is going to be. *I found it ironic I cleaned the pantry last time and I did the same thing this time.

Photo Update

2011-08-19T15:27:00.000-05:00

There has been a lot going on lately so I will keep the words to a minimum and share some pics instead. To go with all of these there have been skate board park trips, book store trips, race track trips, a big boy haircut at a salon instead of the back porch, Norah's 2nd birthday party, Rylee starting school with Miller,pool time and I am sure other adventures I am forgetting to name.

Ryan and I celebrated our 10 year anniversary.

I was 36 weeks pregnant that week.

Miller went bowling for the first time.

He had fun.

Jazzy thinks she is helping me work most days. She's really in the way but I at least got her to move a little bit to the side of my stuff.

Captain America has moved in to our house. Although, something tells me this is a cross between Capt. America and safari man.

Morning Person?

2011-08-14T07:55:00.000-05:00

I used to be a morning person. I could pretty much wake up and be functional at any time. I didn't need time to come around and chipper up. Not so much anymore. I think this may be the reason:

Between the hours of 9:45pm and 2:00am I....

Went to the bathroom at least 3 or 4 times.
Yelled at the dog to go back to sleep 2 times.
Eventually got up and took the dog outside.
Yelled at Ryan to quit snoring 3 times.
Got up and checked out the drama the cat was causing in the baby's room.
Got up and found some water that never made it to my nightstand.

After 2am my hips hurt so bad that all I wanted to do was sleep in a position that didn't scrunch my belly or hurt. I couldn't find that position so once 6am rolled around and the dog wanted breakfast and to go out, I was not having it. Then of course, Miller wanted to get up. Ryan did get up with them but left Jazzy outside who kept asking to come in. I refused to get up and let her in. So I tossed and turned some more. Next thing you know, I have an adorbable little boy asking me to take him to Dunkin Donuts.

I know I will get less sleep with the baby but for some reason, I don't think it can get much worse than my current state. At least I should be able to find some comfort and sleep for a solid couple hours without waking up.

For some, all they would need is their cup of coffee to snap into the day. That's really not working for me. I just want a nap and my sleep headache to go away. Thank goodness it's the weekend and I can take a snooze this afternoon.

10 Years of Wedded Bliss

2011-08-11T06:10:00.000-05:00

Happy Anniversary to Ryan and I. We hit the big 10 year mark today. Pretty amazing for a couple who met each other in the fall by accident (my friend had a crush on his roommate). We went to a party at their house, then a concert at BSU (at least that's what my memory thinks), and back to their house for a little more partying. Ryan and I instantly hit it off with our love of great 80's hair bands.

After that, we had a "date" where I met him at a football game. I showed up wearing the same thing he was. From that point forward, he would make an appearance on Wednesday (or was it Thursday?) nights at F4L when I was working and he was on his way to the bar. Someone in the gang always had to pick up something. What a sly boy.

A few months later he graduated and moved to FL. We continued to date long distance. Whoever thought we would make it? In the summer I moved down to FL in hopes of an internship. That fell through and soon I was back in MN finishing school. We kept dating; thank goodness for email back in the day. Imagine how sweet it would have been with instant messaging, text messaging, skype, etc.!

An engagement occured in the Keys on one of the many back and forth trips. Before you know it, my father played some cards and both the winner and loser got what they wanted. I got to marry Ryan and my father no longer had to take care of me. I was moving out!

Our wedding day was perfect. The weather cooperated, the ceremony was short, the celebration was fun and filled with friends and family. We loaded up the Bonnie a few days later and off to FL I went.

We have survived apartment living, purchasing our first house (and now second), many home improvement projects, adopting pets (and losing some fish and Peggy), vacations, family events and holidays, hurricanes, and the birth of Miller (and soon LBF#2).

Looks like Ryan is really stuck with me. I am one lucky girl. He's the best and I can't wait to see what the next 10 years bring.

36 Week Check-in

2011-08-09T06:20:00.000-05:00

I had my 36 week check in yesterday. All was good. My BP was back up to 108/60 and I gained a pound finally. I am measuring 36.5 weeks which is on track. I commented on my stretch marks that look like I got in a fight with a cat; not just any cat, Jazzy cat. The doctor bless her soul tried to be kind even though I brought it up. I said it's a good thing I am not a bikini wearer anymore and she said "they could fade..." Yeah, not holding my breath for that one.

LBF#2 loves my left side and it's sore to the touch in the rib area. She agreed he's way over there and said the bruising/tenderness is normal. So my theory that the little bugger has been kicking and punching me to the point I am bruising is true!

I asked about a few symptoms I have been having and she assured me they are normal. If they are pre-term labor (darn the internet and being able to google things) she said they wouldn't stop me from delivering. Part of me had a silent jump for joy and part of me thought that wasn't very reassuring. I don't want a premature baby.

After my appointment I skipped stopping for a snack or beverage as a reward for being a good patient and headed to Walgreen's. I had a few items to pick up. I stumbled down the makeup isle and decided to give Maybelline Great Lash mascara a try. I am out of my normal stuff and the MGL is always ranked number one in the magazines for a bargain mascara. We will see how much I like it. I also picked up some new blush (which they changed the colors from the last time I bought it and that annoys me. I have no idea if it's the right color or if I will like it). I wish they would do a "formerly color abc" on the label. Guess I don't buy it frequent enough. They probably changed it over a year ago.

Time to think about getting ready for work. I skipped going back to bed hoping I would get in a little earlier than normal. I have a busy day ahead.

Nameless Post

2011-08-02T19:14:00.000-05:00

The past couple weeks my workload has picked up (busy time at work, co-working taking unexpected leave, me trying to prep for leave, etc.). I have pulled some extra long hours the past few days and it needs to stop. Surprisingly, I was awake from 1-4am last night and it wasn't work keeping me up.

I have hit the extremely uncomfortable zone when it comes to sleeping. No position seems to relieve my aches and pains and none feel "relaxing." I played the toss and turn, pillow adjustment game. Then I moved to the couch. Then I walked around. Then I ate a snack. Then I started the process all over again. I know this is just the beginning of more sleepless nights but I keep thinking at least when the baby is born, the only position that usually hurts is related to full boobs. Hopefully my memory is correct and I haven't selectively forgotten all the post birth horrors my body will bring up.

With 5 weeks remaining I am definitely feeling the need to nest but don't have the energy to do it. The baby room is "close" to being done as there are a few things to put up, we need to adjust the crib height and put the new sheets on, I need to get the pump out and see what needs new pieces, find the monitors, etc. I also need to find a home for the bottles. Nothing major but it's all those little things that are weighing on my mind.

Last night I did think about how and who we would bother if I go into labor in the middle of the night. Then I wondered what I would pack for the hospital. Normally the planner in me would have this all worked out but I really feel like procrastinating and it will work itself out. Is that how I will be with everything with child number 2? I have this feeling we survived knowing nothing with Miller, why put so much thought into this. It should come naturally, right?

Weekend Update

2011-07-31T19:08:00.000-05:00

I have been busy at work and it's about to get busier so I haven't had a chance to post much. In addition to a busy time of the year and me trying to get some extra stuff done before I take leave; a co-worker had an unexpected death in the family that is taking him out of commission for a couple weeks. Yes, I said a couple weeks. Not the best timing for a number of reasons but what can you do?

Last week I felt pretty run down again. I have been following the doctor's orders but I think it's just the way things will be from here on out. So, yesterday, I put my big girl panties on and went with Miller to a birthday party at another bounce house establishment. Ryan had to work in the morning and met us there. Thank goodness! The bounce houses were much bigger and had very fast slides. The kids had a blast and the husbands appeared to as well since they were taking the slides with the kids.

After that, I head to Kohl's to burn some free money. I went with intentions of buying LBF#2 some stuff but after agonizing over things that I didn't really love and didn't really need, I bought myself a pair of shoes (which I did need since I can't wear my heels to work any longer-they are killing me). I did buy the little guy two onesies and Miller a fire engine sweatshirt for this fall. It's adorable and super fuzzy.

I put in a little more time organizing the baby room. It's almost complete (maybe one more weekend's worth of last minute stuff-organizing the closet, raising and making the bed, plugging in lamps, etc.). The clothes have all been washed. I am thinking I will skip washing the blankets. They were clean when I packed them away and honestly, I just don't care at this point.

Today I felt a little better and got up and started some chores. Lots of laundry, a little pool time with the boys (Jon, Pete, Ryan and Miller), a little work to calm myself down for the week ahead, a trip to Babies R Us and Target to get some more baby stuff on my list and then dinner at Jon's.

I was not happy with my shopping experience and think it's just the stores I was at. They aren't the best of the best for organization, selection, or help so I did what I needed and called it good enough. The main reason was to burn through the gift cards and get some final items before the baby arrives.

I think I have more than outdone myself for feeling like someone who's been sick with the flu for weeks on end. Time for some couch lounging. I would like to read but even that seems like a lot of work. Maybe I will find a trashy marathon of reality tv to numb myself.

Uncle Pete the Babysitter

2011-07-24T08:23:00.000-05:00

Uncle Pete came over today to babysit Miller. Ryan and I had a surprise birthday to attend and told him it would be an easy few hours. Little did any of us know...

Miller had told us he had tummy aches over the last 2 days and had a little loose caboose. He was acting normal and things had solidified by the time he went down for a nap. We casually mentioned it before we left.

When we came home, we noticed the hose had been moved off the driveway. We walk in and were asked if they had been out skateboarding or riding the 4 wheeler,, jeep, bikes, etc. Pete gets a look on his face and tries to casaully mention he had to hose Miller off. He laughed it off and we stepped away from Miller.

He proceeded to explain Miller had an accident while they were out swimming. He had to go but didn't make it in time. He was very upset because it was his only clean pair of swimtrunks. So, Pete hosed them (and Miller) off so they could keep swimming.

For those of you that may not know, Uncle Pete was the first friend Miller pooed on as a baby (and quite possibly the only one). They must have a bond. Both reported that each other was good and not naughty. Although it was messy, I think they both had fun (and Pete was ready for some relaxation after babysitting).

Poor Miller had more issues throughout the evening. At 3am he woke up and Ryan went to check on him and help him to the bathroom. The poor kid's leg / foot was asleep and he toppled right over. That freaked us both out because we couldn't tell why he was so dazed and couldn't walk. He just had to potty and we held him until we could get him to confirm his leg was asleep. He just wanted to go back to sleep. After that, I pretty much tossed and turned until he got up, worrying about him.

Ryan was stopping to pick up Pedialite today for him to drink while they flew planes and watch Uncle Pete skateboard. I am sure he will have stories when he gets home. Poor little fella. He just didn't understand why he had butt problems. He was a trooper though-no accidents in his undies.

Surprise Visitors and a Baby Shower

2011-07-18T19:24:00.000-05:00

I got home from work Thursday night to find two surprise visitors in our house. My mother in law and Ryan's grandmother flew down to FL from MN for the baby shower. It was a great surprise. They said it would be fun to do, found a deal on tickets, and worked out the details with Ryan and Jess. Very sneaky!

It was great to have them here and especially for Miller to get to spend more time with his grandmother and great grandmother. Then to top his weekend off, my mom and dad came down. Too bad grandpa Marshall wasn't here or the whole "grand family" would have been together.

Saturday we did a little shopping, had a good lunch, took a nap and then headed to the shower. Jess had a nice spread of goodies for us to eat, festive decorations, and no games (yay!). It's amazing she was able to organize the party while juggling two munchkins.

Many of my friends were able to come. It was a nice afternoon of adult conversation, laughs, and of course, great loot. LBF#2 won't be any less spoiled than Miller with friends like these. Thank you to all who sent gifts and well wishes. We really appreciate them.

Jess raised a good point/observation. At my last shower, half the ladies needed to call for a ride home. This time around, we drank all the sparkling cider and hardly any wine. We must be getting older (or wiser). I, on the other hand, figure that when these friends start breeding, I will be the drunk aunt at their shower. Maybe...

I think this is one of very few preggo pictures of me. I figured I better document this in at least one blog post.

Thanks again for the great surprise visit and the shower. It was a very good weekend and helped take my mind off of Tuesday's ER trip. As an update to that...drinking 110+ ounces of water every day is not fun. It's helping a little but I really wish my iron would produce some more hemoglobin and that added benefit would kick in. Until then; I just keep repeating "only 7 more weeks!"

Trip to the ER

2011-07-12T18:44:00.000-05:00

I posted on FB this morning that I wish every day had a theme like Miller's school so I had some thing to look forward to. Today's theme for me ended up being the ER; not the theme I had in mind.

Today started as a normal day. I got up and ate breakfast with Miller, got him out the door for school and went back to bed for half an hour. Then things went wrong. I was in the shower and it was getting really hot. I didn't feel quite right so I stepped out and took some deep breaths to cool down. My ears started ringing and I felt dizzy. I knew I was going to pass out but I thought "I will just rinse off a little and sit down or get out." Next thing you know, whammo. I smacked my head on the wall.

So much for rinsing. I got out, grabbed a towel and hobbled over to the bed. I said the quick "Dear Lord, please give me a sign the baby is ok" and he kicked so I figured I was ok there. Then I called Ryan at work. Not really wanting to scare him but I think I was slightly dazed myself. He asked me if he should come home and I said no. I said to call back in 20 minutes to make sure I was ok. Instead, he was home in record time to make sure I was ok. I had managed to put on some makeup and was thinking about getting dressed when he came in.

He made me call the doctor. I figured I was just overheated and short of breath. Nothing a little water and cooling down wouldn't help. Then he told me in the nicest way possible to stop being stupid, call the doctor and "you are not going into work!"

I called and they got me in right away. I did the usual check up (same as yesterday). The doctor told me to go to the ER for a full work up just to be safe but she assumed I was ok. Not to panic and that she would be following up on me. I actually said "yes mom" and went to the ER.

First observation-the ER is slow regardless of if you are in pain or not. It took over half an hour to admit me and I was the first in line.

Second observation-it's a good thing they ask you to verify yourself and reasons you are there multiple times during a visit. I was asked if I was there for my c-section. Umm...not today I replied.

I went in for an ultrasound for a full baby workup. LBF#2 checked out well. It was kind of a nice surprise. They let me see his face, hands, heart, etc. (and his boy bits so I could tell Ryan he is really a boy). He was very active so that was a bonus since they were concerned about him and his movements.

Next it was time for the baby heart monitor. He passed with flying colors. I had extremely low blood pressure and supposedly was having contractions. If what I felt was contractions...I have been having them for months.

After that, I had an EKG. It took longer to hook me up to all the nodes and wires than the 10 seconds it took them to run it. I passed that test too.

Lastly, blood draw. The outcome was low iron/iron deficiency. I have been taking iron pills every other day but need to boost them to every day AND increase iron rich food intake. I was also told I was dehydrated. I knew that but didn't realize it was that bad. I am still a little shocked at how low my blood pressure was/is but the baby is ok with it so I guess that is what counts for now.

The nurse I had was very nice and all the staff was friendly. My head still hurts and I feel a little light headed but I think that's par for the course today.

The good news. I stopped at Chipotle afte I was released. No one greeted me or took my order even though there were a million people standing around. When I went to pay, the manager told me lunch was on him. I was super suprised because I didn't wait that long. I must have looked desparate for my burrito bowl.

32 Week Check-Up = Check

2011-07-11T09:06:00.000-05:00

Ah, home stretch here I come. I had my 32 week check-up today and all was well. I finally met another doctor at the practice. He was pretty nice and friendly. He seemed to be a little calmer than my regular doctor and he was on time. Two positives for him.

When asked if I had any concerns, I mentioned I haven't gained any weight from my last visit. I was fully anticipating the pound a week theory from here on out. He said "You might not gain too much more. I am not worried about it. You will probably be thankful afterwards when it's time to lose it." Holy crap...did a doctor really say that?!?!

He also told me that I shouldn't be afraid to push jr's feet down when he kicks me in the ribs. I said don't worry, I push on him quite a bit. He said some women are scared to move them. Really? Not me, I push on this kid all the time moving him here and there trying to find comfort.

He's also head down (which I figured by the feet in the ribs thing). No swelling in my ankles or feet. He said to keep doing what I am doing. For Ryan that means 2 more months of me complaining about how uncomfortable I am.

Weekend Recap

2011-07-10T18:33:00.000-05:00

Ryan was at the racetrack all weekend so I had a Miller filled weekend. We watched Indian Jones and the Crystal Skull (Miller's new favorite movie). We got some play time in (fire trucks, play doh, books, tractors, monster trucks, you name it).

Saturday we made a trip to Rack Room Shoes. Miller got two new pairs of tennis shoes. One was a Lightening McQueen pair and the other was a Toy Story pair. He's going to be sad when he realizes the next size up doesn't come in blinky lights anymore. I really wished he would have gotten some cool Sketchers or Nikes until I looked at the price. At the rate he goes through shoes, I will stick with the Disney boy shoes.

We wasted some time at the fish store looking at sharks and Dorie. Then we bought Ryan lunch at the track. It was too icky to swim so we hung out the rest of the afternoon indoors. The humidity was killing me.

Sunday we ended up at Target for some bathroom supplies and boring stuff. For those that don't know; a week or two ago Ryan bought new socks. This is monumental in our house because I am always complaining about his disgusting socks that won't come clean or have holes in them. Well this time, he bought black ones. They are fine under his jeans and in his black tennis shoes but look silly with his shorts and other shoes. Miller thought they were funny too and has been giving him a hard time. At Target today, I asked if he wanted new socks like Daddy. He instantly said no, he didn't want silly black socks!

We picked up some lunch and brought it to the track again. It was brutal outside so we headed home quickly. Miller took a good nap and then Ryan came home for some pool time. It felt great to float and the humidity today was much lower. I was able to actually breathe.

Miller was happy to have his dad home. I have been pretty much an afterthought since Ryan walked in the door. I am ok with that today. 2 full days of a kid who wants me to crawl on the floor with him and push cars, trucks, tractors, etc. is too much at this stage in the game. It was much more pleasurable sitting at the table playing. I think LBF#2 was happy for me to chill out this afternoon too. He's sick of being squished.

Pregnancy in the Summer

2011-07-09T11:42:00.000-05:00

Up until this point, pregnancy has just been pregnancy. Everyone asks me when I am due and when I say September, they say "oh, how horrible you have to be pregnant during the summer," or "my planned it so they wouldn't be pregnant during the summer months."

First of all, I get that you can plan your pregnancy to an extent but guess what, Ryan and I didn't think to ourselves, let's get pregnant in the winter so Erin can be extremely pregnant during the summer. If I had that much control over when we conceived, I really would have opted for a different time frame.

Second, it does suck but only slightly more than normal. I am already short of breath and hot so the heat and humidity do make it more unbearable. I try to stay inside more than usual because of this. Today it was so muggy I actually looked up the effects of heat and humidity on pregnant women. Guess what, the articles I read said the same thing. Pregnant women are already short of breath and have an increased body temperature. Mixing heat and humidity makes breathing harder and strain on the body.

Their suggestions are things I have already been doing. Staying inside, resting, and drinking fluids. Notice I didn't say water. They actually recommend you don't over hydrate with water and keep your electrolytes up. That makes me feel a little better since I drink no where near what is recommended but I do get plenty of milk and usually a small juice or soda in. Yes, I have been enjoying 7 Up and Sprite quite a bit. One can only drink so much boring water.

I have been extra irritable this week because I am struggling with my breathing, not sleeping well, and also having some mysterious pains I don't remember having with Miller. I go to the doctor Monday for a normal check up. I am pretty sure it's all normal pregnancy related items. I just wish the next 8 weeks would hurry up. I know that the first few months after the baby is born aren't that great either but being able to sleep for a couple hours at a time that's restful seems heavenly. Not to mention going back to being heart burn free (read that no more Tums or Pepsid, and no more half puking and choking it back down) is like a dream state. I can't remember what it felt like to feel good.

I am going to take advantage of Miller's nap time and try to sneak one in for myself. Maybe I will wake up less irritable.

Lazy People

2011-07-08T12:22:00.000-05:00

Since I started my new job in January, I have been introduced to one of "those" types of people that you just hate working with. The person causes more unnecessary drama because "to remain nameless" is just plain old lazy. This person likes to look important but really is so far detached from what's going on, they look stupid to everyone else who knows the truth. We receive multiple emails about the same subject that make no sense because to remain nameless hasn't stopped to listen to the information provided by the support team, read the information provided, or even really stop and think before shooting off ridiculous demands. This person thinks that firing off emails minutes after something is raised will speed up the process and make us jump through hoops when in fact, it has the opposite affect. Up until this point in time, I have just let it roll off and shake my head when it happens. Now, after countless hours of wasted time do nameless's poor work habits and inability to communicate, I am officially annoyed and putting this person on my list of not one to bend over backwards for.

As you can tell, to remain nameless wasted my morning so I felt it was time to vent. Does everyone have one of "those" people they work with?

Random

2011-07-06T12:33:00.000-05:00

Random post today.

Our home computer monitor died this weekend. Now, any normal family would probably wait 2 weeks to get a freebie from their parents when they visit but not us. Ryan researched a little and purchased the day of its death. I think it's because we use it so much (and he's in the middle of converting all of our music over to one format, one copy, one backed up drive). I honestly didn't realize how expensive they were. Mom, if you are reading, I will still take it as a second monitor for work so I can multitask better.

Some people from work went to the Poison/Motley Crue concert last night. I had completely forgotten about it until they posted on FB. I am jealous I didn't get to go but knowing how pregnant I feel, I would have had a tough time standing/dancing in my spot and singing my heart out. This made me think of another random thought.

I have been pregnant for every holiday this year. New Year's, St. Patrick's Day, Easter, Memorial Day, 4th of July, more than likely Labor Day unless I go early. I didn't necessarily miss out on any fun but it's weird to think of pregnancy that way.

Ryan painted half of the baby room. It looks pretty good so far. He took the approach of shuffling furniture from one half of the room to the other so we didn't have to take it apart and put it back together again. Works for me. I am just glad he's doing it all. I will have plenty of "organization" work to do once it's ready for me. I am itching to get in there and go through the old clothes, make my list of needs, wash and organize, etc. I didn't think we would need much with number two but I am finding out my list is growing.

I really want to take a vacation. I mean a serious vacation but it's not in the cards for this year. It's bugging me more knowing it's our 10 year anniversary in August. I guess we will have to wait until next year to celebrate big time. This has me thinking about a good gift idea for Ryan which then makes me think about what I want. I wonder if all of these random thoughts and bouncing from topic to topic are hormone related? They seem more random than usual. Maybe it's related to hanging out with Miller. He's pretty random in his train of though too.

Our 4th of July Weekend

2011-07-05T09:25:00.000-05:00

We had a fairly productive weekend considering the rain and thunderstorms. Saturday, Ryan was a work-aholic on the yard. What started out as "I am going to mow the backyard before it rains" turned into mowing both front and back, trimming bushes, and starting to mulch the last section of the yard by the AC unit. Miller was hit and miss that day with tantrums so we figured we had an extra long weekend in store for us.

Sunday was my turn to be productive. I picked up the house, ran some errands, made the food for Monday's party, and got in some play time with friends.

Monday Ryan got about half the baby room painted. Miller and I put together some new Lego's and were lazy. Then we headed to Brian and Crystal's for the 4th celebration. Lots of food, fun, and sun. Miller played in the pool, played with Uncle Jerry and his firework stash, and saw a fire truck (Brian's neighbor is having one restored. The fatal mistake, he put a dummy fireman in it. Scared the bejesus out of Miller; which I had to hear about all night after that.) We didn't make it until dark to watch any real fireworks. I was overly hot and tired and Miller's goodness was about to wear out too. Plus, I knew getting him up for school would be a chore today (it was).

Overall, a nice, uneventful weekend.I don't know why I am so tired. The heat zaps what little energy I have. I could seriously use a nap right now. Do you think anyone would notice if I curled up under my desk at the office?

4th of July Weekend

2011-07-01T10:53:00.000-05:00

Facebook has a ton of posts this week talking about all the things people are doing in MN that relate to the 4th of July and summer in the midwest. I don't miss much about MN but there are a few memories I would like to share.

4th of July Traditions:
1) My poor father worked insane hours but we always got to visit him at the waterfront or ride with him at the head of the parade (unless we got to ride in our friends antique cars). That usually meant we also got to go on a few rides that he deemed "safe" at the time. No carnie wants to mess with a cop's kid while he's watching.
2) Kiddie parade on Saturday.When we were little, we were in the parade (baton twirler or marching for the skating club), or we watched for the best candy. The route was short and it was fun.
3) Real parade on Sunday. As I mentioned we got to ride with my dad in the police car or with our friends in their antique cars. Some years we watched. One year I think I had to march for marching band (that stunk).
4) Party at the Otterstad's cabin on Lake Bemidji. Food, fun, tubing, and if we were lucky, boat rides out on the lake to watch the fireworks. Other years my mom would haul us to Diamond Point Park to watch them in the car while it rained with the radio on (the big deal was the local station was supposed to be "timed" with the fireworks. It never quite worked out like the ones at Disney.)
5) College years meant I could go in the famed "beer tent." It was over-rated but I went any ways. You would always meet someone you knew at it and of course, watch all the crazy drunks make fools of themselves. I recall I might have been one of them one year...just maybe.

When we moved to FL, we tried to find a local parade. It wasn't the same. We didn't know anyone. They were all politicians, and hardly any candy. Top it with we weren't acclimated and 90 degree weather almost killed us. So we started our own tradition.

In our old house, we hosted a party with lots of food, drink, and fireworks. I have to say, it's one of the best parties the crew has all year that most of us look forward to. Then we sold the house on the lake and the last couple years, we have had to try out new locations. It's still a great celebration with the same people, same great food, and explosives. It's just a little scarier blowing stuff up in the street or someone's yard rather than out over the lake.

With the kids now starting to infiltrate our parties, we may have to find or start some new traditions that are a little more kid friendly. One thing we won't add to our tradition, MN mosquitos!

Would You Ever Say This?

2011-06-29T12:17:00.001-05:00

I have been assisting a professor at work that has been nothing but a giant nightmare to work with. His course was missing materials. At the half way point (yes, the course is live with students in it), he still had outstanding handouts that we had been unable to locate. After months of following up and the course being live, he finally sent me 9 emails with up to 7 attachments in each ALL labeled the same way. It took me a while to sort through that mess.

To top it off, his course was poorly designed because students keep placing assignments in the wrong spot. To correct that, we have to work with development. So after the 6th student inquiry today I had more recon work to do. I asked him a very simple question. Depending on his answer he either a) had to send me one more assignment from the student or b) tell the student they had to resubmit other work on their own. This is the response I received to my inquiry.

"I work all day and it is simply not feasible for me to do more."

WTF? First off, it's not my job to make this decision or follow up with the student. Second, do you think it's my job to chase his crap all day long? Why did he spend time emailing me that when he could have asked his student for an answer or an assignment? I wanted to tell him his half baked course development has cost us triple the normal cost to develop a course and his students have wracked up more tech support calls/costs than his peers combined. For now, I am going to hold back and see what his boss says. She has been involved in all of this but not said one single word.

I do think the hormone levels have kicked back in because this past week things have made me fiesty or teary. I watched Kate + 8 "gives back" today (they go to a food bank and a soup kitchen). I was balling thinking about the people who don't have enough food and how sweet it was that the kids were helping. Ugh! I need to get a grip.

My Stats and Rights of Pregnancy

2011-06-27T09:18:00.000-05:00

I had my 30 week check up today. All is well. Blood pressure is good, baby's heart beat is good, I am measuring good, weight gain on track and good. When asked if I had any questions or concerns I asked "Is it normal that I am more annoyed this time around?" The doctor laughed and said yes, baby number two nothings new. You know what's coming and just want the baby. I felt relieved to hear a medical professional tell me that even though all friends and family say the same thing. I asked if I could step up the heart burn treatment and she confirmed my need for something stronger than Tums was Pepsid or Zantac so I proceeded to Walgreen's after my appointment.

Here's my first "rights of pregnancy rant." I really don't mind people asking when I am due. It's the conversation that follows that which annoys me. Example from today: The cashier asks “When are you due?” I tell her. She then says “It’s a boy.” I say, “Yes, it is.” She proceeds to tell me she knew by the way I was carrying. I smile politely and say yep, boy number 2, same way I carried with the first one. Then she proceeds to ask/say assumingly, “Well, with your next try, if it’s a girl you will go sideways instead of out front.” I politely say, “No third one. Two healthy boys is all we need.” And she still says/asks, “But you don’t want a girl?” I shook my head and left.

Now, it’s annoying enough when people ask you when you are due or tell you how big you are. But insinuating that since I am not having a girl I must have more children. That bugs the crap out of me. So, I did what any hormonal woman would do. I stopped at Dunkin Donuts and got a breakfast sandwich and an iced coffee. It tasted even better knowing it was in spite of that ladies rudeness. LOL!

Miller's First Movie

2011-06-26T08:14:00.000-05:00

Saturday we went to Cars 2 with Miller. He was super excited for his first movie experience. We had a quick/early lunch, headed to the theater, got our tickets, got some snacks and headed in. He was bouncing off the walls. Then it started...as in "I have to go potty." I took him during the 20 minute prequel/commercials.
Then when the actual previews started "I have to go poop." (side note, the kid already went at home) Ryan took him. No poop.

Then the movie started. Good, sitting still, not asking why about everything. Oh wait, another potty break.

I think we hit the 45 minute mark or so and then he says "I want to take a nap." We tell him to relax and if he falls asleep that's ok. Then fast forward a few more minutes. "I want to go home."

We replied with a no and told him to wait it out, it was almost over. Ryan contemplated getting up and leaving. I held my ground. We were staying.

There were other kids in similar predicaments and the theater had a low murmur of kids talking and parents whispering to sit still and be quiet. I didn't feel bad because no one in that theater was a single adult that didn't have young children with them. I was a little upset because Miller can sit through a movie at home. It was just bad timing with lunch and nap time mixed with excitement.

When we left, he told us he had fun and wanted to go back. I think it will be a few more months before we try it again. It was about what I expected for the experience. In fact, I was suprised he didn't ask more questions and talk more during the movie.

As for the movie; it was cute. The animation was incredible and I think it will be fun to watch again. We missed a lot talking to Miller and weren't truly focused. It was a little "James Bond-ish" and action like but a very cute and simple story line.

Good Planning

2011-06-22T20:51:00.000-05:00

I mentioned a few posts ago after my Dr.'s appt. I stopped at Walgreen's for iron pills and a refill on Tums. Good thing. My heart burn is in full effect. I need to tough it out a few more days (next appt is Monday). I need to ask for something stronger just like I did with Miller. I know I can take something, I just can't remember what I bought last time. I think I have taken a full days supply of Tums in the last 4 hours. Nothing helps. (yes, eat smaller portions more frequently, make sure it's dull and boring, dairy to coat your stomach...check check check.)

I hate to curse my bladder but this whole foot in the ribs things isn't helping the heart burn one bit. Move down little buddy. Mommy would like to have at least a few days free of heart burn, constipation, back, belly or boob aches and possibly sleep more than a 2-3 hour stretch. Is that too much to ask? I mean, I already know what I am in for and any symptom relief between now and delivery would be appreciated. I need to check back on my previous blogs and see if Miller gave me such a hard time at the same point in my pregnancy or if this one is just a bugger. Sorry for the complaining; I had to get it off my chest (or should I say out of my throat?).

Work

2011-06-22T07:28:00.000-05:00

I mentioned a couple posts ago that work was going to be busy. We had the week of craziness in preparation for my partner in crime taking vacation. Then the week of him being on vacation. Now it's the week he got back and we are catching up plus we had a new employee start. I haven't left the office before 7 the last 2 days. I like being busy but am looking forward to things slowing down a little or me working shorter days.

Today I am working from home. I have a ton to do and am kicking myself I didn't do some of it last night. But, after getting home, scarfing down some cold leftovers, and then trying to get some time in with Miller, I am glad I didn't. Does this mean I am finally growing up or just lazy?

Father's Day Weekend / Birthday Part 2

2011-06-19T18:58:00.000-05:00

My dad and Miller share their birthday. This year, they weren't together to celebrate on their actual birthday. Instead, my parents made a trip down to visit for Miller's B-day party at Monkey Joe's and to celebrate Father's Day.

We spent Saturday at the beach and some pool time at home. Then Ryan made a fantastic dinner. He made blue cheese stuffed steaks wrapped in bacon and lobster tails (thanks for the recipe Mr. Bahl!). My dad whipped up some veggies to go with it. I don't know how I lucked out but both my dad and Ryan are great cooks. My mom and I on the other hand...well...keep reading.

Sunday morning we all lucked out. Miller woke up 6. He went the bathroom and I talked him into going back to bed. Then he was up around 7 by himself and played quietly until 8. We all got to sleep in!

Next, Miller, my mom, and I decided to make the dad's breakfast. Miller made pancakes. Literally. He did it all and I think he can crack an egg better than us adults. The cooking part is where my mom comes in and well...let's just say that the first round of cakes didn't turn out. She forgot to fully plug the griddle in. I am not much better. I was in charge of bacon and eggs. I can do bacon. As for the eggs. They were a little rubbery and I broke a few yokes in the flipping process.

After that we headed to Monkey Joe's for Miller's party with his friends. It was well worth the money we spent. We showed up with the cake. The party hostess took care of setting the cake up, the room, serving the kids, prepping the cake for pictures, slicing and handing out, taking pictures, etc. I didn't have to clean or run around in a panic.

Since it was Father's Day, we had the place to ourselves. I think there were 2 other kids there around the hour mark and then when we left there were some more. It was like having a private party there. The kids never walked once they entered the play area. They ran non-stop. Miller played with all of his friends and bounced his heart out. He even was brave enough to give Monkey Joe a high five and sit by him for a picture. He opened his presents, thanked everyone, and then we headed home for a nap (all of us).

It rained in the afternoon which was fine because when he woke up he played with all of his new toys. We topped the evening off by Ryan playing a video game while Miller and I had date night. We made popcorn and watched his new Muppet movie from Uncle Erik. He was an excellent boy all weekend. I am all teary thinking about how fast he has grown up and how charming he is. I love my little monster and only hope #2 is as fun. Time has flown by.

3 Year Old Stats

2011-06-17T12:32:00.000-05:00

Miller's primary pediatrician is no longer with the practice. No idea what happened. Ryan didn't ask when they called to tell us last night. Good thing the practice has lots of good doctors but I did like her. I was hoping she would be #2's primary also. I might have to do a little recon and see where she ended up.

We met with the new pediatrician today. She was very nice. She asked the usual questions about development and eating. The cutest is when Ryan asked her at the beginning if there would be any shots. She said no. Ryan told Miller he could relax, no shots and he put a big smile on his face. Miller was an excellent boy. He let her poke, prod, listen, look, etc. He checked out well.

Height: 41 inches
Weight: 37 lbs

I believe those are both above the 95th percentile.

Afterwards, it was too early for lunch so we swung by Toys R Us. We looked to kill time and then headed to Firehouse Subs. Miller LOVED the restaurant. It's a sub shop decorated with fireman stuff and murals. I have a feeling we will be asked to go back again. He didn't want to leave.

Had to add in these pics since it's all related to turning 3. An actual picture of him and his cake on his real birthday. Then a picture of him priming LBF#2's room.

Results of Test

2011-06-13T08:58:00.000-05:00

I passed my glucose test with slightly high levels. The next command was "take your iron pills with your vitamin and a probably a stool softener." I knew the iron command was coming and was actually going to ask if I needed to start taking it if she didn't bring it up. I stopped at Walgreen's on my way home and dropped them a nice $40 for drugs. I replenished my Tums supply too. Trying out the smoothies again since it's been a while and maybe they will be nice change to my nightly routine.

Other than that, I have gained a pound from my initial starting weight. I was told I am on track with that. My blood pressure was good. The baby's heart rate is perfect. I am measuring right on track too. Home stretch! 12 weeks to go and I am back to going every two weeks for check ups. It's a nuisance but it makes it seem like things are going to move fast now.

Ryan started spackling the walls in the baby's room this weekend. Hopefully we will have that painted this week. Depends on how much time he has and how much I feel like masking things off. Then it's wash the clothes, unpack the totes, make a list of what's missing and wait for the arrival.

Glucose Test

2011-06-10T18:43:00.000-05:00

I went in for my glucose test today. It was the first time I have been to a lab outside of the doctor's office while in FL. Even though the place was like a machine with people in and out, they were still a half hour late getting me in for my appointment. So much for scheduling the 7:30 early appointment knowing I needed to get to work before 10. Oh well.

Since my pregnancy with Miller, they have changed the glucose screening process. The minimum test is a 2 hour test now. So, I got a ton of blood drawn, peed in a cup, drank the nasty orange flavored syrup, and waited for an hour. Then they drew more blood. Then another hour of waiting. Then they drew more blood.

The nice part of this test was that I didn't have to sit in the waiting room. They had a room with lazy boy recliners for glucose test patients. Sure beat sitting in the uncomfortable waiting room chairs. They were renovating and could have used a good wipe down but I was ok with a little dust butt.

About half way through my test another lady joined me. We made some casual small talk but she made my day. She was little over a week further along than I am and told me I looked tiny for how far along I was. I love first time mom's. That was so sweet. I assured her I would plump up soon enough and that I only had 20 weeks of morning sickness to thank for my current shape. She laughed and of course had said she didn't have much morning sickness. Lucky lady.

For the next half hour, we had the pleasure of listening to a child complain, cry, and whine that he didn't want to be touched and wouldn't let the nurse draw his blood. He was old enough to know better (I am guessing kindergarten or first grade). At the half hour mark, mom pulled out the big guns and threatened dad was on his way. When I left, he still hadn't had his blood drawn. That is the reason your appointments are never on time. That nurse was so patient. I think as a parent I would have marched him outside, swatted him, tried to bribe him with something and then held him down. Who knows. Either way, I felt sorry for all involved.

I also heard a patient complain, a manager get called in and a nurse get reprimanded. Lucky me, I had her do my second blood draw. I knew she was not in a good mood after the 20 minute butt chewing she just received. Thank goodness she didn't take it out on my veins.

Now I have to wait to find out my results. I have a doctor's appt on Monday but they won't be in on time. I didn't have problems with Miller and don't foresee problems this time around but it's always a sigh of relief when they tell me everything is ok.

On the work front; this week was more insane than I anticipated. One night I was at the office until 9pm and two other nights I had to work once I got home. It made the week go by fast but I haven't had days like that since I switched jobs. Next week will be busy too as my peer is on vacation. Hopefully I can keep up. I still am lost on a lot of things but some other stuff I feel I am doing well with and that I have it under control. I know I am the one pressuring myself to know it all and I know it takes time but I hate not knowing how to do my job! TGIF is all I can say. Time to go check on the munchkin. He sweet talked me into letting him watch tv before bed tonight. I even got a hug and a kiss. How can one say no after that?

Upcoming Work Load

2011-06-06T15:42:00.000-05:00

I have been extremely spoiled with my current work from home situation and work load. Starting tomorrow, I foresee a few weeks of busy-ness ahead. Tomorrow and for the remainder of the week, I have a calendar that looks very familiar (meaning full with back to backs all day long). I have some evening sessions I need to monitor and next week, my peer is out so I have to fly solo. Don't forget to add in some doctor appointments for me and one for Miller. I am ok with the increase in work and hustle and bustle but am going to miss my opportunity to take full lunch hours and keep a slower pace. I will probably have to work a few extra hours also.

I welcome this and hope it will keep my mind off of how uncomfortable I am. I haven't said much about this pregnancy. I am trying to refrain from complaining but this time it seems a little rougher than last. Morning sickness was much worse but lasted just as long (20 weeks). I am back up to my pre-pregnancy weight but feel huge. I know I am not but I must be carrying differently. I have back pain and front irritation (darn boobs, belly, and sitting all day). Add in the expected heart burn that is in full force regardless of the food I eat. These are all things I experienced with Miller but they seem to be occurring much sooner. The thing that makes me upset is I know it will only get worse (the comfort level and lack of restful sleep) and I have a ways to go. Yuck!

Hopefully the extra work and pace won't wear me down too much. Which, I was just on a conference call talking about ADA (American Disability Act). I found out that pregnancy can be considered a disability! LOL!

Swear Inducing Toys

2011-06-05T14:14:00.000-05:00

Miller had a weird birthday. He started out super excited and as the day progressed, he seemed more and more upset. We couldn't figure out why. We think a few things affected him.

1) It was just us this year, no grandparents or friends. (He said he didn't want anyone to come over. Later in the day he wanted Uncle Jon, Uncle Jerry, and Norah to come over. Uncle Pete and Aunty Amy were a bust do to yardwork but we know Pete will make an appearance this week with his skateboard.)
2) He knew his big cake and party is at Monkey Joe's later with his friends but I think he thought it was happening yesterday even though we talked about our plans all week leading up to yesterday.
3) He got a skateboard and I think he thought he was going to be able to ride it like a pro his first time and didn't realize how hard it would be.
4) I think he also thought he was going to get to go shopping for his own presents. He got a lot of loot but it was bigger things (skateboard, t-ball set, swing, etc.). We think he thought he would get more "indoor toys."

Number 4 led to a trip to Toys R Us today to pick out something with his birthday money. After an hour in the store and literally 20 minutes trying to decide; I found an airport toy and a rescue station toy. Of course, he couldn't decide and I said f it and bought both. I felt guilty for not buying him more when Ryan told me to this week and I clearly couldn't get him to make up his mind.

Big mistake. I spent the last 2.5 - 3 hours hunched over on the floor putting together the two toys. I didn't realize I should have put the decals on first (mind you, I couldn't figure out which stupid piece was which anyways so they would have ended up on the wrong ones) and then the actual assembly directions were far from detailed. Miller tried to wait up to play with them but I finally sent him to his room for a nap. I was starting to lose it and I knew the naughty words were coming. If I were drinking, this would have easily been a 3-4 drink project.

I still have one piece that isn't working right and Ryan will have to try to figure it out. I also had a few whacked decals and then I ripped a couple. I was so mad at myself. In my own defense, the directions were horrible and trying to do this with a beach ball in front of you (prego belly) makes it a little more challenging. I now know why Santa never assembled many gifts. S/he was too frustrated after an evening of assembling all the other toys to have the patience to do it after 9 or 10pm.

I hope Miller plays with them because these two top the matchbox car launcher thing I got him for Xmas that he hasn't played with and is now back to a million pieces in a toy bin. By the time #2 arrives, I will have figured out which toys are the easier ones to put together (or how to bribe Ryan to do it).

Happy 3rd Birthday Miller!

2011-06-04T13:45:00.000-05:00

I can't believe my baby is 3 years old today. How time flies. Too bad he's too tired to enjoy his own day. Here he is birth, 1st, 2nd, and 3rd birthdays.

Random Tidbits

2011-06-03T07:57:00.000-05:00

We received an avocado tree from Pete and Amy. Miller helped Ryan plant it the other night. I am pretty pumped. I hope it does well for us. It's already taller than the fence. It just needs to gain a little girth. Thanks Pete and Amy for the tree!

Another thing I am excited for...the new fridge for the garage is supposed to arrive today. The one that came with the house has never really worked well. Ryan tried to fix it but it's just worn out. It will be nice to have a cleaner and more energy efficient one running out there. Yes, the little things in life excite me.

Tomorrow is Miller's birthday (Dad's too). I have a boat load of presents to wrap. We asked him what he wanted to eat for his special breakfast (offering pancakes, IHOP, donuts, eggs, etc.) and he choose cereal. Hmmm...We also asked what he wanted to do. You guessed it, mow the lawn! When we asked him if he wanted to go to a restaurant, he said the Rock n Roll one (Rock n Roll Ribs). Of course, he never actually eats when we go there. We asked him if he would actually eat his food and he said no. At least he's honest. Hopefully tomorrow the little dude is in heaven, well behaved, and spoiled rotten. I will post our actual events since he does have a tendency to change his mind.

Last Days in Hawaii

2011-05-31T18:56:00.000-05:00

Thursday: we headed to Hunauma Bay for a morning of snorkeling. They only allow so many people in at one time so we were lucky we got there when we did. The bay is beautiful. We watched the "Don't feed the fish, don't walk on the reef" video and headed down the long hillside to the bay. The water was so blue and clear. I thought it was rather chilly and am not one for snorkeling so I just waded out on the edge of the reef. I saw quite a few fishies. The boys all snorkeled and saw a little more. Miller had a rough morning and didn't like anyone leaving him to go snorkel. I felt like he was a pain but others didn't think he was that bad (at least they claimed he wasn't that annoying).

Afterwards, we headed back to rest (hoping Miller would sleep). We had a Polynesian Luau to attend that evening. Of course, he barely rested so the evening was a long, trying one. We arrived at the cultural center, walked around a little, had dinner, and then hit the big show. It was great. The cultural center was very pretty and had a ton of lush plants. I was sick of taking pictures and skimped on it. I wish I hadn't. During the show, they didn't let us take pictures but the costumes were amazing.

Miller did a pretty good job considering how late it was. We lucked out and had some open seats next to us so he had his own chair and could move a little. He even said at one point "Mommy, it's hard to sit still." We kept telling him to wait for the fire and he did. He loved the guys that twirled the flames and he also liked some of the songs.

The entire trip, all I wanted was a fruity drink in a coconut or a pineapple. I finally got one with dinner. Too bad it didn't have a fantastic floater of rum to top it off. Oh well. It was good anyways. Here are a few shots at the cultural center. (Miller was trying to give a thumbs up but it looks retarded.)

Friday: we went back to the cultural center to walk around the villages. At this point, I was vacationed out and Millered out. He was not in the mood to sit through any of the presentations. Ryan and I thought we would let him run from village to village, get our boat ride, and make it through the day. The rest of the family could take their time and sit through the presentations and spend more time without us bugging them. Let's just say, we did a lot of walking, I was hot, tired and cranky. Miller was hot, tired and cranky. I think Ryan was just plain cranky. We missed the last boat ride before there was an hour break. In that hour, they do a river parade. It was cool but Miller wasn't having much of that either. Luckily, Erik took care of him for a bit. He knew we were going to drown him if he was left with us.Then we caught the next boat ride back through the village. Miller liked it and was behaving a little better. We stopped and had shaved ice and ice cream. I purchased a few items from the gift shop and we convinced the rest of the family it was time to go. I feel bad we rushed through because it was super interesting and beautiful. I don't think I took a picture that entire day. Darn it. I know Erik took some good ones so I am waiting for those.

When we got home Sean cooked up some steaks and Ryan made some fresh shrimp we picked up from the shrimp farm. We ate like kings that evening.

Saturday: our last day on the island. We pretty much hung out at home, packed, and Miller and Ryan got in one last beach day. I was sad to leave because it was a good time but happy to be heading home. I was vacationed out. I was looking forward to my own bed. The downside was we still had that long flight home. Our flight left Honolulu at 9:45pm (late of course, it was after 10pm). Miller wouldn't rest until we got on the plane so again, the most trying part was waiting to get on the plane in the airport. I already blogged about our actual flight so you know we survived and made it home ok.

Bye bye Hawaii. I am not sure when or if we will return but it was fun. Joann and Marshall, thank you for the wonderful vacation and family time. Erik and Sean, thank you for playing with your nephew and relieving Ryan and I of our parental duties. Now, I challenge my parents to take us on a vacation like this. :)

Memorial Day Weekend

2011-05-30T16:30:00.000-05:00

We accomplished a few chores this weekend; cleaned house, picked out a new fridge for the garage, cleaned out some of the new baby room, purchased the bedding, etc. We also had plenty of swimming time. Sunday we headed to Uncle Jon's for the annual pool time and bbq. Miller swam/jumped in the pool for almost 2 hours straight. He now can jump off, swim to the surface, and swim forward a little. Pretty good but he's getting a little too gutsy.

Monday we repeated pool time at our house and Jess and Norah were able to join us. It is the last time we will see Jess preggo and Norah as an only child. The next time we see them Norah will be a big sister and Jess will be sans Caleb in her belly. I don't know who is more excited; Jess to be done with pregnancy or us to babysit Norah and check out Caleb after his arrival.

Here are a few pool action shots for those that live in the cold, rainy northland.

More Adventures

2011-05-29T08:11:00.000-05:00

Tuesday: We loaded up and headed to Pearl Harbor. I thought Miller would like the battle ship more than he did but I guess when you are only 3ft tall, battle ship gray everything isn't as cool. He started out loving and looking for guns then we proceeded to firehoses. Basically Ryan and Miller ran around the ship. Joann, Marshall, Sean and I followed. Erik took a guided tour. We walked up and down and back and forth. It was pretty amazing to think something of that size can float. The teak floors were a surprise to me also. After a while, we managed to get Miller into the gift shop for a quick purchase while Erik finished the tour. Then we headed to the airplane museums for lunch and what was probably Miller's best part of the day; sitting in a rescue helicopter! Nevermind Airforce 1, a space shuttle cockpit, etc. That darn helicopter won his heart.

At home, Marshall entertained Miller with a whirlybird purchase. It was basically a propeller on a stick that if you slid your hands apart, it took flight. They chased it around and played for much longer than I thought the novelty could last. Ah, to be a kid.

Wednesday: Ryan and I escaped the clutches of Miller and went on a helicopter ride. It was awesome! I had never ridden in a helicopter before and really enjoyed it. It was like an amusement park ride. To add to it, as cheesy as it sounds, they played the Hawaii 5-0 theme song when we took off. I couldn't help but smile. We had a 45 minute tour of the island. The pilot was a good host. I took a ton of pictures but again, they don't really show the beauty or color of some of the mountains or water. We turned just a little too early but almost passed over our house. Here are a couple pics.

After the helicopter ride we headed into Honolulu for lunch and some sight seeing. We forgot our GPS and were navigating off a pretty poor map. We were able to find some historic sights, eat a crappy lunch, and make it back to the house without getting lost so I consider that successful. I think we fought more about where to eat than anything. There weren't a lot of options, I was hungry, you know the rest of the story.

We saw the King's statue, the court house, and the palace. The banyan tree is huge. I can't describe how large it is but I have never seen a tree that big! We tried to venture to one more place; a temple, but the map and the roads weren't really working in our favor. Instead we headed back, picked up Erik, and went to the historic town we were staying in for shaved ice and a quick trip through their tourist trap stores. Shaved ice-wish I took a picture. It was better than a snow cone but the same principle. Ryan was daring and tried the one with ice cream and beans. Yes, candied beans. It must be an acquired taste. We didn't really like the beans. Then it was back home for dinner.

The Adventures

2011-05-27T13:54:00.000-05:00

I think I erased some pictures so I am eagerly awaiting the ones from Erik and Joann. Until then, this will have to do as the beginning description of activities and pictures.

Sunday: We took a road trip to the end of the road and got out and took pictures on the cliffs. The pictures certainly don't do the scene justice. You will hear me state this a few more times.

Next we headed to the Dole Pineapple Plantation. We took a 20 minute train ride through the plantation. It was interesting to learn about how pineapples are raised/harvested and a little about some of the other native plants (which many we have in FL). We skipped the pineapple maze (during our helicopter ride we found out one lady took over an hour to get out of it!) and hit the gift shop for some pineapple whip (cross between pineapple ice cream and sorbet). It was refreshing and tastey. Sean found out 16 oz of pure pineapple juice will do a number on one's system. Unfortunately for him, it is the new family joke.

Monday: We left Sean at home to teach while we headed to Honolulu's Teddy Bear World. The museum has animated teddy bear scenes from around the world and the history on the teddy bear. Miller liked it and kept us moving so we didn't get to look as much as we would have liked. Then we ventured into the "Dinosaur" area. All hell broke loose. Miller was scared and Ryan said something about them eating him. We had to high tail it out and for the next few days, all we heard about is "Why were the dinosaurs so loud? Why did they want to eat me? Why are they scary?" Eventually he wanted to see pictures of them. Of course I didn't have one of the scary one because we had to run out during a freak fest. I was tempted to go back and pay to get a snapshot of that dino if it would end the conversation. Needless to say, the rest of the museum was hurried with one looking over his shoulder. (of course I posted the skating picture for me and motorcycles for Grandpa Jeff)

After the museum (and a purchase from the gift shop-Erik has the best photo of Miller and his new teddy), we headed to the Hard Rock for lunch. I have been in quite a few Hard Rocks and I thought this one was really nicely done. Check out he wall to ceiling guitars!

Lastly, we took a scenic trip back around the other side of the island hoping Miller would sleep. No such luck. Lots of dino talk. We found the place Joann and Marshall used to live in (quick photo op) and then headed up the coast. We stopped near Chinaman's Hat so Miller could take a bathroom break.

That got us through two days. More to follow on our trip to Pearl Harbor, helicopter ride, beaches, etc.

The Flight

2011-05-24T20:09:00.000-05:00

I was pretty worked up thinking about our flights to Hawaii and back. Miller is a decent flier but the thought of taking a kid on a 12+ hour flight, keeping him entertained and happy, and me being pregnant just about put me over the edge. Luckily, we all did ok.

We were up around 4am ET and off to the airport. Miller was excited and ready to fly. He had his new Lightning McQueen roller bag packed with goodies. Best purchase I have made in a long time.The first lag to Phoenix he was into flying, snacking, reading, playing, etc. but had a tendancy to push off the seat in front of him. In his defense, he wasn't kicking. He literally is at the height where his outstretched legs just touch the seat in front of him and every time he slipped down, he wanted to push himself back up. The last hour or so of that flight was a little trying but could have been worse. I had an aisle seat so going the bathroom was easy and I actually enjoyed Miller's need to use the bathroom as an excuse to get up a few extra times.

The next lag to Hawaii he did pretty well. We didn't have 3 seats together so that put a damper on the situation. We had two window seats and one middle (aka me). I didn't get up enough so I was feeling rather icky by the time we landed. I should have walked more and drank more water. Miller had one outburst where he cried for me to sit by him (no idea why) but he calmed down once we switched seats. Our neighbors on the flight were very understanding to our shuffling. He was pretty much over flying the last 1.5 hours. We all were but again, he wasn't terrible. Just whining about wanting to get off the flight.

Here he is enjoying his movies (Fireman Sam of course!).

Grandma, Grandpa, Sean , and Erik met us at the airport. We grabbed our luggage and headed out to the house. With the time change (6 hours), we arrived in Hawaii around 2:30pm local time (8:30pm ET). The drive from the airport to the house was about 45 minutes to an hour. We were wired even though we were tired so we tried to stay up and get onto a schedule. We were up at 4:30am Hawaii time the following morning. More to follow on those adventures tomorrow.

As for the flights home; we left at 9:45pm Hawaii time. Miller was a brat in the airport but good on the plane. He slept but Ryan and I were not well situated to get any rest. We dozed off and on. My back was bothering me and we were in the seats next to the bathroom so my trips to the restroom were futile for walking. We ate breakfast in Phoenix and then hopped back on for our next flight home.

Miller slept most of that flight too. He was really good once he woke up. Too bad we didn't have a red eye on the way over too. I was completely over flying at this point. There is a reason they don't want pregnant women flying. It's down right uncomfortable. Ryan also agrees, we are done with flying for a while. Of course Miller has been asking "When can we fly again? Can we go to the airport?"

Kudos to my little trooper on doing the best darn job an almost 3 year old can do on a plane. It was heavenly to fly without a diaper bag and have him potty trained. We also went sans stroller. He helped carry his own bag and kept up with us. Same kudos to Ryan for helping entertain Miller and letting him sleep on him.

Hawaii

2011-05-23T15:53:00.000-05:00

We are back from Hawaii so I will have plenty to post about. Hopefully I won't bore you to death. I will try to post some pictures to keep you entertained too but I am eagerly awaiting those from Erik and Joann. Although I took over 200 pictures, they don't really do the trip justice.

Here's the overview of the trip. First and foremost, a giant thank you to Joann and Marshall for planning such a great trip. The house they picked was on the North Shore of Oahu and when I say on the north shore, yes, on the beach! I think it was a perfect pick because there was a nice line of breakers off shore that kept the large waves from hitting us so we could enjoy the water. The house had a great yard for Miller to play in when he wasn't convincing someone to play on the beach or swim with him (thank goodness for Uncle Sean and Erik!). Here's a view off of the balcony of our house which spent many hours and meals around.

Marshall was our dedicated driver and did a good job hauling us around the island and playing tour guide. More to come on those adventures this week.

Here's a picture of Ryan and I on the deck with our leis. Miller didn't want to participate in the picture (or any others for the most part). Joann brought them to the airport but we were too jet lagged to take pictures upon arrival. They smelled fantastic and are pretty cool (and heavy) compared to the plastic ones we have all worn at parties.

Underwear

2011-05-10T19:34:00.000-05:00

I know potty training is monumental in a child's life but Miller is obsessed with underwear. I have never seen a child so excited and focused on which underwear to put on. This weekend we bought him 2 new packages because his other ones shrunk when I washed them and they were a little to "tighty" on the "whitey" side. He's in "real boy" sizes! No more toddler sizes :(

He put a clean pair on after bathtime so the next morning, we had told him he could leave them on. Oh no, he had to wear another new pair. And...the others, although still clean, went in the laundry basket because that's how it works.

He lays them out on his bed, every single pair, and asks about them before he finally makes a decision. Normally, I think this is adorable except for the fact most of the time, I want him to make a choice and move on. We have things to do; tick tock.

I am glad he's excited over this because it has made potty training much easier and fun. It just makes me think I should go buy a new pack of undies for some simple pleasure in life.

Mother's Day

2011-05-09T07:38:00.000-05:00

Mother's Day rocked this year. I think it was extra special since Saturday both Ryan and I were ready to give Miller away or lock him in the house while we went on a much needed vacation.

Ryan and Miller spoiled me with gifts this year. The funny part of it is that the gifts I received were really to their benefit for our trip to Hawaii. So, in addition to the Xoom, DVD, and earbuds, I got the two most cherished gifts a mom can ask for; peace and quiet and a happy kid all day long!

Ryan started off the day by taking Miller to fly airplanes, the park, and Target so that I could stay in bed without the craziness of Miller running and yelling (Saturday we were up before 6am and the tactics to have him play quietly or watch tv didn't work). Then they brought me some donut holes and iced coffee. Ryan and I took turns playing with Miller while the other read the paper and then Ryan took him back outside so I could have a half hour to read and then shower. We headed to Big Bear for lunch.

News flash, don't go out to eat on Mother's Day. Especially after church is out. We had a 25 minute wait which wasn't too bad but it was so blistering hot outside even Miller asked if we could go in and get water. We survived 10 or 15 minutes outside and I was soked from head to toe in sweat. I don't do well with heat or being hungry so the combo of the two was trying my patience. Luckily I snuck up to the bar and got a glass of water. Being a good mom, I let Miller drink first. Big mistake. I think I got an icecubes worth of liquid. After that, we did have a good lunch. Miller sat by me and ate pretty well. There was little chastising to sit still so I can't complain. I just wished I could have had a mimosa, bloody mary, glass of wine, or a nice cold beer. That would have topped the lunch off.

We came home and everyone took naps. Then we hit the pool. Miller was content to play with his water gun and water balloons rather than jump so it was easier on Ryan and I than the last few weeks of pool time. He was practicing floating and blowing bubbles with his face under water. I have a feeling he will be swimming (I say that with a notion that we aren't talking Michael Phelps) by the end of the summer if he keeps this up.

Then we cleaned up, had lobster tails and crab, and watched some Mary Poppins. (I think Ryan is impressed by my memory of the movie. I even knew some of the words to the stupid Feed the Birds song which is by far the worst song in the entire movie.) It was an easy bedtime routine without multiple attempts to put him back in bed. Then Ryan and I watched a little of the new Harry Potter movie (realized we forgot a ton and need to rewatch the first 6) and stopped before bedtime because we were too tuckered out to finish it.

It was great to have a fantastic Mother's Day. Now, can I pull off a Father's Day for Ryan like this?

Vet Update

2011-05-06T07:56:00.000-05:00

Some of you know Annie has been fighting a very red, nasty bulging eye for too long. Two weeks ago she went to the vet for that to be relooked at and her tail that she nawed the tip off of and keeps licking. A hefty vet bill later, she got some great drugs for eye that appear to be working (per our observation and the follow up appointment).

As for that wicked tail...it is still an open wound that one day is ok and then the next it's an open blood bath. She wags her tail so hard it splits open and splatters blood across all surfaces. Since it's the tip, a cone for her neck isn't going to work since she can bend and contort that tail right back into her mouth. Bandages are ripped off within milliseconds. We resorted to taping a water bottle on the end of her tail with the end cut open for air flow. It's been on for about two hours...I should probably go check. It needs to scab over. I am really sick of cleaning up blood splatters on every surface of the house. I had secretly wished the doctor would recommend docking her tail. I know that's not the nicest thought but oh well. If you know of any tips for keeping a dog from licking an open wound...pass them along.

You Know You Are Old When...

2011-05-05T14:23:00.000-05:00

You know you are old when it's Cinco de Mayo and you haven't even thought about eating Mexican food and having a margarita, a shot of tequila or even a Mexican beer or two. Maybe it's the pregnancy or maybe I have finally outgrown the desire to fight the crowds.

I lost the desire to participate in St. Patrick's Day a few years back. What's next for me to give up on?

New Toy

2011-05-05T06:50:00.000-05:00

Miller (Ryan) surprised me with a new Xoom for Mother's Day! This is the first toy I have had in a long time. I am getting used to the touch screen but typing is so much laborious compared to a key pad. I guess that means i will have to keep my post short.

Thank you to my two favorite boys. You sure know how to spoil me. And I am assuming yourselves since i know who can't wait to get their mits on it!

Time

2011-05-03T20:23:00.000-05:00

I know we all wonder where our time is spent and where it goes because it never seems there is enough of it. Normally, I think I do a decent job with time management at work. Ryan begs to differ since I never leave on time but as far as balancing work load, deliverables, and projects, I rock.

When it comes to my home life, I am not very good at it. I can't decide if it's because I think I can pack a lot more into my time at home or whether it's that I am too worn out to get things done in an efficient manner. I am guessing it's a combination of both factors. Plus, I feel like whatever little time I do have has to be spent doting on Mr. Miller.

The crazy part of time management is that now that I work from home 3 days a week, I do get extra chores done that I used to save for the weekend (laundry, keeping things picked up during the day, small errands such as paying bills, etc.) but I don't feel like I have gained any time on the weekends. Where is it all going?

Yes, yes, I could do a time study and record what I actually do and when to figure this out but I know what I will find. I am lazy and instead of doing things more efficiently, I chose to do things that suck time (blogging, facebook, watching tv, reading books/magazines, etc.). For example: right now, I am monitoring a live session for work but thinking I should be multitasking and typing some meeting minutes from earlier today. Instead, I justify in my head that I already worked 8:30-6:30 today and again from 8:30-10 tonight.

Do any of you have tricks for managing your personal time or home time more efficiently? I seriously think there is nothing left in me once I am home and now with being pregnant, it takes all I can muster up to just stay awake once home.

Staying Away From Politics

2011-05-02T12:30:00.000-05:00

With the news of Bin Laden's death, I am sticking to my no politics policy. I am keeping my distance from the FB posts too. I think there are a few too many ridiculous comments out there that do not warrant a response, a like, or even a counter argument. It is history in the making. I wonder what it will say in Miller's textbooks when he is in school?

Switching gears...

We have had a busy long weekend with friends in town from North Dakota. Matt and Val have enjoyed some warm weather, pool time, an airboat ride, beach time, and hopefully today, some relaxing time before the little Millerman gets home from school. He's enjoyed playing with them and keeping us all entertained.

Our guests had cooked us a fabulous dinner two nights ago and tonight, we get to enjoy some homemade lasagna. They are excellent house guests and are welcome back anytime (even if they don't cook for us). Tomorrow they head back to the frozen tundra. I have a feeling Miller and Annie will be a little heart broken to see them go.

Looking for Motivation

2011-04-27T08:56:00.000-05:00

I am looking for motivation (other than the fear of dying during labor because I am so out of shape). I am seriously worried about pushing out LBF #2 because with Miller, they put me on oxygen and it was a 32 hour adventure. I remember wanting to give up near the end. Not this time. No 32 hours and no giving up thoughts. It's going to be push, push, push and done. Yeah...in my dreams!

I am finally starting to feel better and figure it's time to start getting in shape. I am not talking running marathons or having an aerobics instructor body. I would like to be able to walk without feeling out of breath. I would like to be able to lift, carry, move, etc. around the house without thinking my heart is going to jump out of my chest.

I know the simplist and easiest form of exercise that is doctor recommended is walking. I thought I would get my butt out of bed on the days I work from home and do it before my work day begins. I think this is still my best option but in the mornings, I am not really ready to get moving that early. I would much rather have that extra half hour to sleep. Maybe I can squeeze in a cat nap at lunch time?

My other option is at night and that means after Miller goes to bed and that's too late/dark out. My other quandry is that the neighborhood isn't as easy to map out like the old one. Too many dead ends. I will have to stick to the basics for now.

I am not one for "swimming" but maybe some water walking on the weekends or treading will need to take place. I can't believe how out of shape I have become and it's scary.

My goal is to start this activity next week. We have guests coming tomorrow and no sense starting a new routine on a Friday, right? So, if you find any motivation, send it my way. I am in need.

Desk Culprit Revealed

2011-04-26T12:26:00.000-05:00

My not-to-be-named friend was my desk culprit. (Remember I posted about shared workspace ettiquette.) I had lunch with her today and asked her about it. We were in hysterics. I kept telling people she would never be that inconsiderate and here she had been consciously doing it to see if I would notice. She did feel bad about leaving the salad at my desk. What a goofball.

Whirlwind Weekend

2011-04-25T06:57:00.000-05:00

We had a fun packed weekend thanks to a great Easter party and a visit from Grandma and Grandpa Sladky. Now I wish I had a few days to relax!

Norah started the weekend off with an egg dying and egg hunt party. The munchkins were so good. They colored their eggs, had snacks, played, and of course, hunted the eggs. Miller took his time opening each egg to check out its contents before moving to the next.

After lunch, he took a nice nap (so did Grandpa) while Grandma and I ran to the mall. We accomplished one of my dreaded chores...finding a prego swimsuit (Hawaii is less than a month away) and some new bras. I won't go into detail but let's just say that after trying 20+ bras, I finally found 2. The sales lady was fantastic and blamed the trouble on my growing baby belly.

We then had some pool time. Miller thinks swimming is really jumping off the steps to whomever will catch him. Grandpa and I are out of shape when it comes to catching 40lb boys so we had to switch on and off. Ryan came home from a day of play and we were off to a nice dinner. We topped it off by watching a little bit of a movie and one tired, happy little boy went to sleep.

Sunday we kicked off the day with a small egg hunt in the house, played with some new Easter loot, and then it was chore time. Ryan and Grandpa started the swing project while my mom and I replanted a ton of plants. Miller was semi-crabby so he played by himself. Ryan came in to get lunch ready and Miller had helped himself to a cold breakfast burrito in the fridge!

(Tire swing on other side, not finished. Top of tree will have a few modifications but it works slick!)

After we finished our chores, the adults took a dip in the pool, I finished cooking, we ate and then it was more pool time with Miller. We wrapped up evening with him playing with Grandma (cars, books, bubbles, swinging, etc.).

Today will probably be a rough day for Miller as he didn't want Grandma and Grandpa to leave or to go to school. Hopefully he isn't too naughty at school. We could use a few good days there. Too bad his teachers didn't see him this weekend. He would have been a gold star student.